i never understood why some guys tell a girl that they wants her but is willing to share her. if he wants to share you than he probably doesn't want anything serious, just a good time. but there's too many people with stds to be sharing anyway. eww lol!

NO!!!! WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU??? why are so many girls asking about this shit today? IF YOU DO IT YOU ARE A WHORE! there is no better way to put this other than that. NO he doesn't care. Any guy or girl willing to do that doesn't care and deserves nothing less than a warm spot in hell.

He doesn't. You just have a few of the orifices in his equation.

Sex object. I would not approach this unless it was my idea. It sounds like this is not your idea, it sounds like you are following the crowd.

He said he was attracted to you. He didn't say he had serious feelings of love for you and that he wanted you by his side for the rest of his life. There is a subtle difference between the two. In this case, the difference is one or two people besides you, naked, having sex. You are just someone he wants to have sex with. If that's what you're looking for then you found the right guy. If something meaningful with someone you love is what you're looking for you need to look elsewhere.

Oh C'MON! He just thinks you're hot and wants to get laid. I doubt he 'feels' anything for you. Sorry if that sounded mean, just being honest.

How 'bout we try THIS first: Either fix your marriage or get a divorce. (If you truely are married.) Knock off all the "emotional affairs", and any other affairs, until you do one of those things. I don't understand a couple things, from the other questions you've posted: FIRST: You'be been with your husband for 21 years, the last three of them actually married to him. I'm assuming (correct me if I'm wrong here) that after 18 years of living together two people would at least have SOME idea about what marriage entails and how much work it takes. Why, in blue blazes, would you live with someone for 18 years and THEN marry them if you were having problems? SECOND: How in the WORLD can you POSSIBLY describe your husband as a "great friend" and then have an affair on him? Disregarding the whole marriage thing, even friends don't treat each other like this! Had this question NOT been asked after all those other questions about your marriage and all, I would have treated it as simply a person who is, perhaps, considering a little sexual experimentation. In that light, I would have simply said that likely this is ALL it is with the people involved, and to take your chances if you wish knowing that. However, I would say you have BIGGER problems. You're married. Quit being totally selfish about this and either FIX THE MARRIAGE or have the common decency to END THE MARRIAGE before going off and banging the cr*p outta everybody else. NO spouse deserves to be treated like that.

He feels nothing, its a sexual turn on for him to see someone else doing it with you..thats all it is, sexual play..Some people want a fantasy like that and have no feelings for anyone. If you have sexual desire to do it and no strings attached go for it. But you might not like yourself later on...Think about what you are doing, HIV is on the rise and people who are drunks and on drugs are higher risk, sometimes in the heat of sexual fantasy a guy might not want a condom on you might be the lucky winner of that one...I personnally would not at all, you don't know these people..

If you can't answer that one your lost.

You want to be gang-banged by three dudes? He will set it up and the other guys will give him money. How do you feel about having three sausages in your face? This person should not drink so much, his evil side is showing.

I'd say he doesn't care for you or anyone else for that matter... He just wants to get laid! It's not that great, unless you like feeling like a slut, passed around without consideration...

I'd say he probably want to give you a good seeing too but isn't interested in anything more than the physical.

Ask him again when he's sober then slap him hard. ;)

exactly if he really cared for you there would be no way in hell he would want you to do something like that.. .and i suggest you dont'

I’d just like to point out that a good portion of drinkers have to be completely plastered before they lose the ability to self edit. A lot of people use the excuse of having had a drink to say what they really want to say and do things they wouldn’t normally do, knowing they won’t be held completely accountable for any of it because they ‘were drunk.’ How do you know this guy was really drunk, and not just fishing for a positive reaction to his suggestion?