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You married into the whole family, not just one person. So you have to figure out how the whole family operates. It looks like people get dibs in this family, so try to put dibs on next Thanksgiving if you can, and try to do it in a gracious manner.
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In this day and age, this is not unusual. Its not fair to make the kids choose mom or dad because they are divorced. My parents divorced when I was young. When I have parties & get togethers, all parents & step-parents are invited and they do come. My step mom is really friendly and has gone out of her way to be friendly to everyone, including my mom. You need to stop resenting the fact that he was married before whether you like her or not. He is with you now and this is your family now too. Take the high road. People will notice and respect you for it.
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