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Crystal
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Return the "favor."
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start to like someone else, attention from someone will always cloud anything else!
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I wish I knew. It seems like I am always worrying about someone who couldn't give a care about me or if I lived or died. Not much help but I know where you are coming from
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The "cure" for ONE person, is ANOTHER person. If you are fortunate, the NEXT person will be better than the one, previous.
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Get involved in volunteer work with people who have a lot more to worry about than that, and could use your help. For some articles with other great ideas and tips, scroll down to the bottom of the page, click on "How to Articles" type "stop worrying" or "get over lost love" in the search box.
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I was going to not comment until i saw several "find someone else" answers. Do NOT try to fill a hole with a person. It is unfair to the person and is not guaranteed to make you stop caring about the other. You cannot control how you feel, but you can control your actions. Time will take care of the caring part. In the meantime just promise yourself not to act based on this caring. The best way to get back at someone who would seek to hurt you is via your own happiness. Take care of yourself. The more focused you are on you and your well being, the quicker the period of getting over this person will be. Relationships are a dime a dozen but you only have one you. Invest in yourself and the rest will come.
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Learn to control your thoughts and emotions.
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I know how it hurts , it's easy to give advice (move on, find someone else) but hard to do I still worry and care
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find something else to worry and care about
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Focus, as hard as it may be, on finding SOMEBODY else that WILL. It works! because you wont have the time to be worrying about whether that other person still cares for you...its not easy when your heart is tugging at you wanting to pull you back, but if that other person cares NOTHING for you, its a waste of precious time.
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If you think about it, then you will realizee that if they don't care about you and don't care enough to bother with you then why should you bother with them. They are not going to feel any differently if they know you still worry about them so worry about someone and care about someone whos only going to do the same thing back for you.
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Think rationally. Like take someone who you COULD be infatuated with, but just aren't, and then, find the faults in them. So that whoever you're infatuated with is just an ordinary person (with a bigger or smaller load of faults).
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First, I want you to write why you broke up with this person. If this person doesn't care about you, you may want to take up a hobby, preferably that involves other people, so that you can make some new friends, increasing your chances that you will find somebody new. I realize that you care about this person dearly. But you've also got to realize that you need to start caring a bit about yourself as well. You deserve someone who sees you as beautiful/handsome. You deserve someone who cares about your feelings, someone you can talk with, share with without being afraid what they're going to think of you. You deserve someone that cares about you as much or more than they care about themselves. You deserve someone who loves you for who you are in your heart and soul, and you love theirs. You are not going to get that with this person, and
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well first you have to acknowledge that rejection is a natural challenge and you have to start backing off. It sucks.
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Every night before you go to sleep. Think about what you want to cultivate in your life rather than what you don't want yourself to do. THe human mind is geared to fixate and focus on one thing. If you spend all your time trying not to do something you are wasting the energy you will need to change it to something else.
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Work or projects to keep you focused and your mind off of it. I find projects are the perfect solution to refocusing the mind!
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