by Mr.Cool on May 26th, 2009

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I'm thinking about breaking up with my girl because she won't give me oral sex no matter what, I am spot clean downtown and I give her oral all the time. Other than that our relationship is great. But I don't know what to do anymore, Advice on what to do?

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by D.J. on May 27th, 2009
I'd advise you to consider this: small issues when you're dating are often huge issues when you're married. This girl and you and sexually incompatible. That's not a huge deal as long as you're dating. That will become a major issue if she becomes your wife. Finding someone sexually compatible is just as important as someone with whom you otherwise 'get along,' in my opinion. And I would NOT encourage you to make her do things sexually that she doesn't want to do. Let her be. Move on.
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- Thanks alot, that really made me think just now.++++
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by endowed - out on May 27th, 2009
Gina and Violet have given great advice. I'll just add this:
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I dated a girl like just like this. I broke up with her for more than just this reason alone but it played a big role in my decision. "Should I stay with a picky girl that DOESN'T like giving blow jobs or should I just break up with her?" I might have dealt with a picky girl if she gave me some head but that would depend on how well the head was. 8) I'm not that heartless, I just don't see why a relationship should continue if one of the partners isn't going to work at making the other FULLY happy. And I'm not limiting this to just head. If there were other factors that I liked that outweighed getting oral sex, I would have stayed with her. But she wasn't worth the trouble and I knew I could find better.
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Before you do something rash, you need to decide what's worth more - loosing her not getting oral sex.
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- Thanks alot++++. but that last sentence is a tough decision, because she's awesome but so is oral sex so I've heard, and I've never had it from a girl before.sigh just Sucks for me.8(
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- I feel for you. Sometimes the relationship is far worth it not getting that, but on the scale, I'd have to ask myself why wouldn't she want to do that for me? If she knows how much I want to try it, and I DO the equivalent for her, what's her hold up? Is it the act itself, is it because she doesn't want your load in her mouth? I would talk about it with her and make sure she knows your feelings on it.
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  My feeling is that there's a first time for everything. And it should be tried at least once. ...Maybe she has tried it and doesn't like it. You really need to be speaking with her about it. And are you guys having sex or are YOU the only one pleasing her? If that's the case, I'd just about snap and beat the shit out of the next person that looked at me cross eyed. At least that would be my feelings. I'm really a nice guy.
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  by endowed - out on May 27th, 2009
- Yes I know what your saying, I really do appreciate the words of wisdom and I have tried all I can in talking with her about it. She claims she has never done it before, and says and I quote "I just don't want to try it. I just don't want my mouth on a genital area." She says she really likes me and I like her but God this is hard. I can see that in the future eventually I may simply have to break up with her and cut all ties with her because hey other than that I would have no other choices but 2 to make and that is cheat while I am with her or stay miserable and always wonder what it is like and I don't want to have to do either of those. She is smart,pretty,and honest with a great personality. But I sense I may have to end this and just hope for the best that I can find someone who will give me what I deserve.
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  by Mr.Cool on May 27th, 2009
- It sounds like you both are young. I'm going to guess around 14-18.
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  by endowed - out on May 27th, 2009
- Very close were both 19.
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  by Mr.Cool on May 27th, 2009
- 19 and she won't do that? How long have you been seeing each other?
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  by endowed - out on May 27th, 2009
- About 4 months.
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  by Mr.Cool on May 27th, 2009
- I don't know dude. Ever since I was 16 it didn't take more than two weeks to get a girl to do everything with me. Well, almost everything. But oral was definitely included, even though my one girlfriend had a problem with it, she at least did it a few times. You have to make your own decision about it. If it were me in the relationship, we should at least be having sex. Otherwise, she's the only one having fun and you're left out to go home and spank it ... alone. Or maybe she's nice enough to give you a hand job. She's probably the type that doesn't want to get any of the load on her hands because it's yucky. I would probably break up with her if she wasn't giving me oral or having sex, especially if I was giving her oral.
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  But only you know if that's the case.
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by Gina A on May 27th, 2009
maybe she feel awkward doing it. Don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to do. I'm sure if there was something u didn't feel right about u wouldn't want to do it. Let her decide.
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- Yeah, you can't force her to do anything she doesn't want. And you don't want to be pushy about it because that will ruin the relationship. But listen to Violet and stop going down on her. It's give and take and all she's done is take.
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by Violet on May 27th, 2009
you have to stop giving her oral. She's getting her way, and you are letting her. You must stand your ground. Good luck
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- Excellent idea. Follow this advice.
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  by endowed - out on May 27th, 2009
- thank you : )
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by Frederik on May 26th, 2009
It is her decision and you have to accept.
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by Redtail95 on May 22nd, 2010
Here's what ya do. Stop giving her oral. Then tell her that if she doesn't start giving back, your not going to give her any either. She may listen, she might not. If not, you have to follow through, and stop giving it to her. She should go crazy, and that'll be that.
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by Anonymous101 on April 14th, 2010
oh well. she dont like it. she DON'T like it and dont have to. do her a favor and break up. if she wanted to do you with a strapon would you let her?
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