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  • Ooo, do NOT follow the example of your parents! They have communication and trust issues that you don't need, AND they are putting you in the middle. This is hard to say, but it's really between your parents. You can encourage your dad to tell mom, but apparently he thinks she will not react well. In the scheme of life, going to a strip club is not a big thing. Like many politicians, it's the cover-up that is the REAL crime.
  • Stay out of it. It will only cause grief to all parties.
  • Okay, so he was chillin' at a strip club...he obviously didn't want to upset your mother or cause any drama or he would have said he was hanging out at a titty bar to begin with. This is one of those cases where it's better off left unmentioned. If you saw him cheating on her, that would be different... Soooo...what were you doing there? Did YOU tell your mother that you were doing your homework? :-)
  • RESPECT HIS WISHES AND DONT TELL HER. UNLESS SHE SPECIFICALLY ASKS YOU ABOUT IT.
  • The better question is; when did you start stripping and did you give your Dad a discounted lap dance?
  • buy him a beer and a lap dance....and give him vouchers for the vip...
  • What were you doing in the strip club .. did you tell your parents you were going there?
  • Ask for a pony.
  • Well the cat is out of the bag here. What i wonder now - is will Dad tell her now that he know you know. How will Mom react if she finds out you knew - but said nothing? Only you can answer these as you know your Dad. I never understand why men feel they can't tell their wives things like this. My hubby would be able to tell me - and I would ask if he enjoyed it? I may not like it - but i would rather my hubby be able to tell me things like this.
  • depends on if you want to be the reason for the tension between them or not.
  • Maybe you should talk to him about it and about why he was there. Maybe you can get him to tell her himself. If she asks you about it, though, you shouldn't lie to her. If she ever finds out you knew all along, it might upset her.. either way, you're probably going to upset one of your parents. Upsetting your dad would make more sense than upsetting your mom.
  • Keep your mouth shut. Your father is a big boy and he can go where he pleases.
  • Is there anything you want? Like, do you need a few extra hundred dollars? Or a car? Or clothes or something? Because this is what you do: "Dad, I need _______________. I just don't know if I'll be able to keep our 'secret' unless my money problems (or whatever) are fixed." No, in all honesty, I went through something kind of like this recently. I had a conversation with my mom, we treated each other like adults and talked through everything. What your dad does is his business, and it's his job to tell your mother. I don't suggest you get in the middle of it, really.
  • I would tell her. Its really painful to see your parents not know whats happening with their spouse.
  • Extortion.
  • What were you doing there?
  • Tell your mom. Maybe hint to her that she should step up with the sex life. Obviously he is searching for something he doesn't get at home. Maybe buy her something that would help them in that department.
  • Nothing, all he's gonna do is deny it. Besides, it will just create drama over something that's so minimal.
  • IF she asks ,"do not lie"...ur dad is up to no good(even it is just being dishonest) or he would not have asked u to be "dishonest" too.....u should of told him upfront , "i won't intentionally hurt her, but i will not lie for u if she asks"...my dad and a few uncles did the same to me...i always said, "im not a rat ,but i aint gonna lie for u or nobody else.." if u see it gets out of hand.....u should be honest with both..."dad i owe mom the respect of being honest and if this continues , I have no other choice ..." and "mom, u have a right to know "...:)
  • Keep your mouth shut and join him.
  • keep it to yourself but if she asks about it then tell her the truth. If she asks why you didn't tell her then just say its wasn't your business to get involved in their personal life,
  • Personally, I would give dad a guilt trip. I wouldn't tell mom, seeing as this situation is between mom and dad, but at the same time, this ain't right. Basically, what I would say to dad would be something like,"YOU told her you were going to a football game, but YOU went to a STRIP CLUB??? You lied to your own WIFE! Seriously, why would you do something like that? How could you do that to her, and what the heck does that say about your own character???" Of course, if he got mad at me, I'd point out that he brought this on himself, and I'm only pointing out the facts. That, and he got ME involved in this, so there's no reason to be angry with me. Seriously, if you see anyone in such a situation, you should bring the reality of their own actions to their attention.

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