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Don't let anyone into something you don't want to do. If he isn't on board, are you able to take care of a child on your own? If so, do what you feel is right. If you can't, there's always adoption.
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Your child needs you,and you know that you are going to love him/her. Your boyfriend sounds like a REALLY selfish guy,and he's probably just trying to get out of paying child support in the future if you and him break up. Sorry,but this is what I think-KEEP THE BABY,Ditch the boyfriend*
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The only thing I would abort is this guys backside out of my life. Whether he wants to live up to his responsibility or not does not mean you shouldn't. This child did not ask to be conceived. If the two of you did not want to face this, then you should have learned a little self control of your hormones. YOU now have the responsibility of a life inside you. Yes, it's already a life with a heart beat, forming arms, legs, eyes, a face, part of which is going to LOOK LIKE YOU! You helped create this child, YOUR CHILD, now take care of it. Don't make your child suffer the same hurt you are going through because of this poor excuse for a man using you has caused you. It won't be easy. Yea, I was married 2 yrs when my son was born. But divorced when he was 3, he's 27 now. I've been a single parent since he was 3. Raising a child by yourself isn't easy, but can be done, and is worth all you go through. I'm so sorry you have been hurt in this way. But have your child and love him (or her) with all you have. AND next time, wait til you are married before you decide to go sleeping with a man.
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In your bio. you wrote that the guy you are dating has been divorced for 3 years but still seeing his ex-wife. You also wrote that you were uncomfortable with the way he treated you, not really wanting a serious relationship. If this is the case, I agree with 'rere'. You won't get much out of him in love or support. There are a lot of very good people who would give this child a great home and start in live. You would give yourself another chance to find a good guy and give a couple a chance to have a family.
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Its up to you whether you abort, but don't expect this guy to be a part of your life.
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I know someone this happened to,only he didn`t say abort,he just said "it aint me"and dropped her.She was extremely upset.But decided "if he doesn`t want us,we don`t want him!"She kept the child and married a great guy who filled out papers claiming to be the father.(She had left father blank on the birth certficate)They have been happily married ever since...The guy tryed to contact her 3 years after the birth.But she was happily married by then and he did nothing for the child.I agree with her.He was a no good creep!Drop him! You Don`t need him.But there are ways to get child support anyway...Sorry this happened to you and your future child,or if you choose adoption.But hope it will work for the best.You never know who you will meet in the future.And this time keep your eyes open,don`t believe the lies..Hope this helps,some.
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