Are there any men out there that would consider getting into a relationship with a girl who is 20 plus years younger than you? Just curious....
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JessicaXOXO
ANSWERS: 25
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Anna Nicole? Is that you?
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No, I don't think so. I have a daughter that is 18 years younger than me that would be like robbing the cradle to me.
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Not a serious relationship... I think older men actually want a mate they can relate to and a 40 yr old with a 20 yr old girl would be "fun" for a while, but it would not last if the guy is looking for anything serious.
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I don't base relationships on age. I just hope to let them happen naturally. If the lady was 20 years younger, then I'd have to get off my ass and bring back that six pack because I'd be way to concience with my looks.
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Are there any that wouldn't?
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From a purely physical standpoint, yes. Who wouldn't? What an ego boost if you are 45 and a 25 year old wants you! However, if I apply logic, reason, and thought to the situation, I would say no. I would be flattered that a person 20 years my younger wanted to be with me. Yet there are so many other components of a healthy, happy relationship besides sex. I think both parties would be happier with a person closer to their own age in the long term.
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Oh there most certainly are. Try 44 years senior with his daughter just 1 month 4 days younger than myself Edit: woops, wrong way round... but yes, there are many of them too, including my cousin Jamie
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Loads of guys would prefer a relationship with a woman 20years or more younger than themselves, when the man gets to a certan age. Why do you think so many rich men have trophy wives?
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Well a girl thats 20 years younger then me would be 4 years old so no. That kind of massive age difference I doubt I would consider it but then again at my age a girl thats 20 years younger then me is also 4 years old right now.
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I once heard on a radio program that a good rule of thumb is don't date anyone younger than 1/2 your age plus 7 years. Thus 30 y.o. = Don't date younger than 22 40 y.o. = Don't date younger than 27 50 y.o. = Don't date younger than 32 I think the cultural differences (musical taste, familiarity with technology, etc.) and physical assymetry (Young one - Let's go snowboarding, Older one - Let's watch a video) can be tough to overcome. . .
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My man is 18 years older then Me and we never run out of things to say or do we've been witheach other for almost 15 years, his daughter is only 10 years younger then Me and has 5 kids, whom all call me grandma and I love, I am so glad that I didn't listen to my mom when she said he's to old for you!
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I dont base relationships on age(not saying i date girls 20 yrs. younger than me)i base it if i really love the person.
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YES! I would welcome it. I agree with many views shared on age related cultural differences. But I'm a guy and a girl 20 years younger than me is possible for just the sexual part of the relationship, if nothing else. I have been divorced twice and both money and sex were big issues. They eigher did not want to have sex or they wanted to control money. I have found that younger women want sex and don't care what I do with my money (just as long as they are satisfied). I'm not out of touch with youthful trends and remain very active physically. For me, it would be OK. My girlfriend is 15 years younger than me. We get along fine but I am still way more active physically than she is. She loves to have sex and I love giving her every inch! I don't abuse her or fool around with anyone else so it works really well.
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I wouldn't mine it , but my wife would raise holy hell.
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My friend once gave me the equation: Your age divide by 2 add 7 That's the minimum age you can date. So if you're over 55, than you can date someone 20 years younger than you. (Yes, I opened a spreadsheet to figure that out.)
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The older the younger person becomes the more acceptable it would be. Not that if the younger one is 20 it is unnacceptable but you know what i mean
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i would im 48 and do concider it...i enjoy younger
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Yep, I would. I'm 40 and would consider it. There'd be soem conditions - to do with levels of maturity, life directions, some fundamental things/aims/goals in common, that sort of thing. Those things are a consideration when dating anyone though, no matter what the age!
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Since I'm 21 it wouldn't really work for me, but lots of older guys like younger ladies, my dad had a 13 years younger girlfriend for a long time, and some short relationship with girls who were even more than 20 years younger, my mom boyfriend is 20 years younger than she is, 50-30
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Sure. What do you have in mind
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Not a chance because from my age back 20 years, its called jail bait or old enough to be my daughter.
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In a few years maybe, I'm only 32
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I believe that any man that would consider a woman twenty years his junior as legitimate partner probably needs to work on who he is as a man. Unless you're 80 and she's 60, you are avoiding the mental challenge of peer equality.
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I am ! :P
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I would never even consider it. This is mostly because I'm 19 and have no interest in anyone who hasn't even been conceived yet. Maybe I'm just too picky...
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