Hmmmmm.... that's a tough one. If I think of any reasons I'll let you know, but it sounds to me like you have good sense and that you don't really need me to come up with any.

why do you womem always fall for men like this? is it looks he must be a good looking guy! there are so many decent average men out there to chose from most men may be guilty of 1 of these but not all once in a while i like going to the titty bar but otherwise i have my shit together it sounds like you would be better off single thats the problem with people they dont know how to be single drop this guy and play the field find someone who has their act together or dont complain you chose the loser

No, I wouldn't. Criminal record, I could deal with MAYBE depending on what it was for, same with the bad credit (Hey, mine isn't spotless and it's not that important as most of us have a crap credit rating these days!) drinks a lot, NO, goes to stripclubs HELL NO and the rest, well, I can't continue without swearing profusely :-p I'm going to ask you to question WHY you're with this guy who clearly is taking the piss, disrespecting you, not to mention treating you like dirt and playing you for a fool. If he gets pissed when you question his whereabouts and calls you posessive (which I'm sure he does) then he's hiding something for sure. Get rid of this layabout and find someone you deserve. Life is far too short for all this rubbish!

I can do bad all by myself, and so can you.

No, I don't think I would stay with this man, ALTHOUGH I believe only you can decide this, because only you know what you get out of the relationship, so only you can calculate if the benefits are worth the drawbacks. But what you've described doesn't sound good. Not terrible, but not good. I wonder about his attitude. In my opinion, the real sign of a person is how they handle their mistakes, not necessarily that they make them in the first place, so the record and the credit aren't necessarily a big deal, but has he shown accountability and tried to resolve these problems? That is what I would consider. The drinking, well, does it impact his life in a negative way? If it does, and he's unwilling to recognize that and can't control his drinking, it might be at the stage of either: A. leaving him or B. having an intervention. And the strip clubs, I wouldn't really care about that, BUT if you do care about it and he is unable or willing to respect that, this suggests to me incompatibility. And a defensiveness about his whereabouts (assuming you ask him in a calm, understanding manner, and you're not jumping to blame and 'righteous anger') is suspicious and no point in his favour.

i dont think so no if he is not paying any attention to you or is not responcible and drinks a lot no i dont think i would but i am not having a relationship with any one yet and i am 19 yrs old , i live with my mum though

No.