Is it equally important for a woman to orgasm during sex as it is for a man...do men feel like they are lacking something if the women doesn't orgasm?
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ThatGirl08
ANSWERS: 15
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It depends on the relationship. For me, it is more important that my partner reaches an orgasm than I do. If don't bring my partner to orgasm it might be due to a combination of reasons: It could be my fault, my technique, my words, my attitude. It might be her mind-set, maybe she is pre-occupied with a *big* worry, maybe she doesn't enjoy it, maybe she doesn't *want to* enjoy it... maybe she has never learnt to orgasm. Maybe there is something wrong in the relationship, she might not be comfortable (which would be partly my fault), she might not want sex, she might not want sex in this way... there are so many possible reasons. I wouldn't feel I was lacking unless a) I was told that I was the reason - and b) no matter how much I tried I could not solve the problem.
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I think alot of guys do feel that way,and it can be a real bummer.But on the flip side they also feel very studly when they can make thier woman have a super good orgasm! They just need to realize that all sex is good sex,some times is just better than other times, and practice makes perfect;)lol
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A women will feel important by the mear fact that a man wants to have sex with them, men on the other hand go till the end of the rainbow until they reach the orgasm
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It had BETTER be equally important! ^_^
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I am a woman and I orgasm very easily. It is important to me that we both orgasm and enjoy sex together. There are people, men and women who have trouble. They should try to solve their problem so they can enjoy sex too.
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So many women do not orgasm during sex. Yet they enjoy it. They think they don't orgasm but they do, it's not a climax and there is a big difference. Some women really do not though and just do it because that's how they keep their man or they feel it's their duty as a wife. It difficult for women to cum. Some do it very easily and those usually are totally uninhibited. Some are very inhibited but orgasm quickly. I have been with all kinds and no two were alike in that respect. Most men don't feel like they did a good job if the women doesn't orgasm and a lot of women fake it. It would all be so much better if people learned to be honest and communicate. If they did we would never even have this discussion. I think most men just don't take their time and get a woman ready. That's why they don't orgasm. A woman's orgasm is tied so much to their emotional and physical/biological state. To insure a woman does orgasm the man must learn to be in touch with these things.
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Many women never orgasm and it's not necessarily anything to do with their guy. Orgasm is primarily a male phenomenon. It's necessary to have that series of involuntary rhythmic contractions to propel the sperm-bearing seminal fluid from the prostate through the penis into the vagina. Women who have relatively high testosterone levels can often orgasm and in general terms the higher the testosterone levels, the more likely a woman is to orgasm. Most women who can reach orgasm can do so repeatedly in quick succession, unlike men. However women who have high enough testosterone levels to have highly developed paraurethral glands may be able to ejaculate from these glands into the urethra. In such an instance, they are likely to have four or five strong orgasmic contractions with ejaculation and then be unable to reach orgasm again for some time.
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The ultimate aim is to orgasm together. Experienced men can tell whether a girl is faking, but an experienced girl with good muscle control can fake even with experienced men. Unfortunately a man can't fake his orgasm. He tries to fake sometimes, but the girl knows it immediately. Girls therefore always have the upper hand. He can never be sure if the girl is satisfied, so he's always anxious. And that leads to a lot of sexual tension in the bedroom. If I don't orgasm naturally I fake to make him feel happy. Then I ask him to give me a "second" one by fingering my G-spot. So ultimately we're both happy. Take care of your man's feelings. That's most important. Otherwise he'll start dysfunctioning, and that will only frustrate you.
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I orgasm before he enters me... and once, only once, did i orgasm with him... AND IT WAS AMAZING. I was so tired afterwards but was so happy and felt so so so good. My bf saw that and it really brought us closer together. Wish i could do it again... or just orgasm through penetration....
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If she does not orgasm - for which reason ever - something is missing for me.
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Most women orgasm when they masturbate. If they do not when with a partner it is because she is ashamed to tell him how to please her. I am a woman and I've been masturbating since age 5 and always had Great orgasms! If you don't comunicate then it will not happen. If she tells a man what she wants . She should orgasm evertime!!
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No, sex is not like the olympics (faster, higher, farther.) Each time is different. Some amazing, some just ok. The key is helping her to relax. Spend time talking to her and really listen. Don't try to solve her problems. Just listen. Let her know you care. Hug her without groping her. Comfort her without wanting it to lead to sex. Be her friend. Be her mate. Let her know you need her (beyond just sex.) Let her know you want her (beyond just sex.) Do this all the time. Don't wait for the 30 seconds before sex to let her know you care. If you want sex on Friday night, start on Monday morning.
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YES. I do not feel lacking if a woman does not cum with me. I feel she is lacking of the pleasure of cumming. Having a woman cum gives me satisfation almost equal to me cumming inside her. Cumming at the same time as a woman is incredible, done with a few woman, but not my wife.
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I've always thought the goal of sex was Roget the female to orgasm, which led me to have quite a failure complex and not really enjoy sex and really screws up the enjoyment completely, sabotages my erection and end up losing my erection regularly. At this point I've pretty much given up on sex entirely- I'm not sure I've ever really enjoyed it, but I think that has also to do with some bad repressed issues also
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Yeah...geez, that is why alotta chicks fake it. Its a male ego thing. If a woman doesnt orgasm then what kinda performance does a man put on? Women though all in the same need to learn their own bodies so they know how to orgasm and the different kinds. Man...My man would feel like he totally failed if he didnt give me one...and if it was one of those dyer moments that last 5 minutes, ill make him do it again later... Its the womens fault men dont give em orgasm though, why fake it?...its just making him think hes doing the right thing, instead of learning HOW TO DO IT RIGHT.
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