I met a woman at work the other day, no real talking or anything, but her beauty was breathtaking. by noticing am I cheating?
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jimmyDvidiot
ANSWERS: 17
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No. If it was, everyone would be cheaters.
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If you imagined yourself having sex with her.....yes that was cheating....according to the BIBLE....but I think if you just looked and thought about how beautiful she was....that is not wrong.
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That doesn't count as "cheating," any more than gazing at a centerfold goddess in PLAYBOY®. Both guys and gals are allowed to LOOK... +5
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Nah you're okay. As long as you still think your wife is pretty :)
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all I can say is if I were your wife and new about it i would feel awful insufficient. I've had men tell me my beauty was breathtaking and i thanked them, but when i found out they were married I was angry.
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your all good dude, she might be upset, but it is not cheating...
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NO! It's only natural and normal to notice the beauty of another person. Now if you can't get your work done because you're thinking of her, that's a problem. If you "take matters into your own hands" while thinking of her, that's a bigger problem. Try looking past her beauty to see if she has a brain :)
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No. If I notice someone ridiculously attractive, I inform my significant other and we discuss them.
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no appreciating beauty is not cheating that is admiring. +5
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As long as there was no niblet fondling involved, you should be in the clear.
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Yes it is considered cheating because you are look at her too LONG!
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Heck no, theres nothing wrong with looking as long as you dont touch. :D
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I think you should poke both your eyes out so this doesn't happen again. Don't be silly. In my case, "Beauty is in the eyes of the beer holder".
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to each, in their own way, as long as there is no single yard stick, compair and contrast. Sometimes I buff an apple that I do not intend to bite, just to see it shine, dressing and undressing a woman in your mind is kind of the same thing. As long as you don't obsess, no harm or foul. As long as you spend as much time buffing the the legit apple of your eye, she should not have reason to feel left out. When the untouched is very strike-ing it can be helpful to de-construct the why and the how. Was it your then frame of mind or was she a goddess sluming?
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The fact that you even NOTICED another woman shows that something is missing in your current relationship. Your partner should be the only one who holds your gaze.
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I assume you are married. There is nothing wrong with noticing or even being attracted by the beauty of a woman. That is perfectly normal and good. It is only when that look turns to lust that it becomes an act of adultery to God. Jesus said that if a man looks at a woman to lust after her that it becomes a matter of adultery with her in his heart. It is usually not the first look that leads to adultery, but the second. But to just notice a woman for her beauty and admire it is a perfectly normal male reaction. Just don't dwell on it and turn the pure thought into an impure one.
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Of course it isn't cheating! Just add her to the spank bank for punching the clown later.
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