I'm a virgin, my girl knows i'm not experienced. she's not a virgin, but i still would like to make it good for her too. how can i do that?

You'd like to make it nice for her too -- that's a great start.

Tell her the truth: "this is special to me, and I want to make it special for you too..."
Be sincere about your feelings and think of it with all the romance you can -- it's such an emotional thing to share, not just a physical thing, so go with those emotions, you'll connect with her more easily (and women crave a sincere connection.)

Technically: start in a romantic setting that is comfortable to you both, with no big time pressures. Talk about your feelings and about what you both "might like" to feel -- and trade sensations with her. This is a nice way to start foreplay (which can last a nice long time, depending on your age and circumstances.)

So, you're both still dressed; here's a delicious game that allows both of you to control the pace:
she might start with "I might like how it feels if you kissed my ear like this..." and she can do that to you the way she likes it done to her.
You can counter with "I might like how it feels if you ran your fingernails over my scalp..." and you can run your fingers gently through her hair and onto the back of her neck. Then her turn, then yours -- all while dressed and fairly tame -- it'll help you see how to touch each other, and give her time to get as fully aroused as possible, because you may not last terribly long (it's totally normal), so you make want to ask her to play with herself first to show you what she likes, and she can have her first orgasm before you have yours, then you can come to your senses and continue with the trading touches game...

The main this is to relax, be sincerely emotional and open and loving -- she doesn't have to be sexually wowed to feel emotionally satisfied with your love-making.

Thinking of yourself as making love to her, rather than having sex for the first time yourself, will help.

Ask her. She would guide you to it, I assure you.

Here's a little something from the Experienced:
It called umm foreplay tennis. Here's how to dooo it.
Let her touch you/ do to you whatever what she wants, you must then do the same back and so on and so forth.
The result? She gets exactly what she wants from you, without having to suggest anything!
O, masterful. And good luck, have fun.

I know its scary because it's your first time, just relax, be intimate with her, show her how much you care about her to make it romantic, just do it slowly, don't rush it and it will be perfect, my best mate was still a virgin before she slept with her current boyfriend, her boyfriend has had experience, but she loved her first time because it felt right and it was with the right person, if you feel it's the right time and the right person then relax and enjoy! you will love it, promise :)

Wait until your old enough to marry her and if she's still the right girl for you, marry her.

Practice makes perfect.

I'm not being a smart ass, but watch some porn. You might learn some technique. Just use some common sense when applying it, you don't want to do anything too freaky and scare her away.

Also. Since you've never had sex before you will probably explode right away. Give yourself a "hand" a little bit before you get down and dirty with her and you will last longer.

It is not about how many lovers you have but if you really love the one you are being with....to be connected with someone mentally and spiritually can make all the difference. I once was with a man who was mechanically good and got me off right away and a number of times after that...but it just wasn't all that due to not being in love...after everything was said and done it was more of a work out....

Watch some porn flicks and then when you are with her go with the flow and do what feels right... ;)

when i lost my virginity i pretty much tried anything i thought she would like....you will more than likely find something she likes before you run out off ideas

I don't really have any technique to give you - I just want to commend you - that you care enough to ask a hard question. Relax annd let what comes natural. Believe me - it has happened before!

Let her be the Leader and you be the Follower. And while you're going at it, ask her to teach you a few things. After you've learned a few things from her, switch roles.

There's a lot of real good books about sex out there, read a few, and you'll be an expert.

Just tell her that it is your fisrt time. Since you have not done it before, it will be just natural. While doing it, just let her know what you feel for her and she will know. And just have fun, you loose your virginity just once.

ask her to guide you. since she already knows you're a virgin it might not be that unconfortable.

let her know, she can teach you some things.

remember just relax and dont think too much, let her take charge while you just enjoy and feel good.

a im 14 an i had sex 3 times wen i waz 13 an now girls ready no i no how to do it and if ur a virgin i guess u hav to do wat eva u kan do

Let her take care of it, and let your instincts guide you, if she doesn't like something or can make it better, she'll let you know.

well if you wana last longer than 10 seconds, you should probably jerk it about 10 minutes before hand. other than that i'd say just try not to be nervous and you should be fine.

Do not worry too much. Really, just make sure you have a healthy communication with your girlfriend, she should express her needs and so should you.
If you keep a good communication not only will your relationship be better, but your sex life will be great.
Don't stress, have fun, enjoy the discovery of sex and all of its attachments calmly and happily with your partner.

your girl is lucky to have you, she will go at your pace trust me my gf took my virginity after a few times but she loved it, it's the best gift you could ever give her, remember that.

Here's what I did not to long ago when I was in the same situation. Just roll with it whatever happens happens and then do what you can to please her afterwards. Take some mental notes and go for a second round pretty much it can't be any worse right? Make it good for her by doing something else to get her off next.

Answer to a young guy with a big cock who doesn't want to hurt his g/f...You are right to ask this question, as whilst most girls enjoy looking at and playing with a really big cock, it could be frightening for her especially if she is young and has not had a boy's cock up her before. Has she played with it and realised how big it is and is she really ready for intercourse, cos there are lots of other things to enjoy including oral that you can do togerther. If you really both want to fuck, however ( and I'm sure you both will) then take it really slowly, use plenty of lube - especially if you are circumcised as uncircumcised cocks tend to be moist and that helps. Start by giving her oral and bring her to a climax before you start - that will get her loosened up and ready to be penetrated.Use a condom unless she is on the pill, and make sure her vagina is tilted up to line up with your cock - use a pillow or have her squat over you and slowly lower herself at her own pace. Use either slow pressure as you get your head inside her lips, then try making tiny little thrusts until you get it all the way into her. then STOP and wait for her to get used to the feeling of being stretched wide before you start to fuck her. when she is ready start to thrust in and out up and down, try to keep the knob inside her then strt going faster and faster until you are really fucking her hard. Be patient and don't hurt her but when she is ready she will love it. To get it all in grip her buttocks and pull her towards you as you thrust into her.
good luck!

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