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  • If you continue on this path you are well on your way to destroying your marriage. If you love her then that should be all the incentive you need. Love her now or destroy the marriage. If that isn't enough, then work on your confidence. She chose you! She could have chosen him, but she chose you! Honestly, it is time for you to grow up and be a man. No one can change the past. To dwell on it is to waste the life you have been given. So, what to do? When it pops in your head, never let your mind continue to think about it. Find ways to keep yourself destracted. Keep a book handy or an ipod or something the keep you busy at all times. Never dwell on it at all. Force yourself to stop thinking about it. Take your mind somewhere else. If that doesn't work, then visit a cancer ward at a hospital and go find someone your age who has cancer. Talk to them for awhile. Maybe that will give you some perspective. Good Luck!
  • its not about confidence its about believing in sum1 then seeing they r just like you then having to listen that they werent even attracted physically they just had sex to try to make a relationship work..i never thought she would be with sumbudy else then to hear her say she wasnt attracted to him is like a slap in the face either u were and u wanted sex or she was so easy n did it to please him.right.either way its foul and she said she knew she wasnt physically attracted b4 they moved in together but why would you agree to sleep in the same bed with sum1 when you know you r going to have to screw them sooner or later.it doesnt add up
  • OK, let me see if I understand this. You have been married for 2 months and in that time you broke-up with her? I am not sure what she was trying to make "work"? Does she have a problem achieving orgasm and was just trying to see if she could do it with this other guy? Or was she trying to start a long term relationship with this other guy? You say your, "now wife" as if you change wives as often as you change your sox. How many wives have you had? You both need to start over. You need to talk to each other. You need to reassure each other that from this day forward you are monogomous. This will take a lot of communication. You need to rebuild trust. You need to cut ties from all your previous love interest, wives, girl friends and casual encounters and never mention them, again. Your wife might be insecure about this (I speak from experience here). Go romance her, woo her and win her all over again. Start over, starting today, and pray that God will help you put this as ease in your heart.
  • Hey, are you divorced yet?

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