ANSWERS: 12
  • A restraining order should put it in perspective
  • can you say restraining order because i can
  • Be very careful what you tell him. Get Mace to protect yourself. Tell your family about your problem. Talk to a police counselor or school counselor. Good luck.
  • Break up with him anyway. Don't even bother trying to make him understand. He needs to realize that enough is enough. If it's not going to work, it's not going to work. It is NEVER wrong to break up with someone you are not married to.
  • Can't you change your email/number? does he come to your house? because that can be harassment. You shouldn't have any respect for someone who won't respect your decision. You need to get out of this situation. Maybe leave him a letter explaining why, but first take care of yourself and just GET OUT!! good luck! let me know how it goes!
  • Don't talk about breaking up. Do it. His becoming violent should be a giant red flag that this relationship is a train wreck. And no communication once it's done. No accepting phone calls or texts or anything else. If he won't leave you alone, get a restraining order. He has to know that you mean business.
  • You will not convince him it is over. You must leave. If you stay he will become violent. If you leave he will become violent but you can get a restraining order and it will be short lived and in the end you will be alive. Do not tell him you are leaving. Do not pack up more than what you can carry at one time. If you have family that can see you through this time go to them. Have someone video tape any interactions with him to use in a restraining order. You must be brave now.
  • You need to tell him straight. Just hit him with it. Hit the nail on the head. The sooner you do, the faster he will get over you. If you brake up with him slowly (still clinging to him every now and again) he will like you for longer.
  • Don't try to handle this problem by yourself. For your own safety, get somebody involved such as an adult or a professional. Search the internet for domestic violence resources and get professional advice. WomensLaw.org is probably a good starting point. They have a page specifically for teen dating violence.
  • You seem to want out. Get out.
  • i suggest doing everything everybody else says. if it was me, i'd turn it around on him and feminize him, slip hormones into his food, and before you know it you've got a pretty girl, then he'll just cry for a long time when you leave(it does work)...lol. =D
  • Please get out for your own sanity and safety

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