i cant give you a good answer. i have the same problem!

Probably because when your with someone you really love you your more confident and radiant and open with others because you have what you desire and of course it sparks interest from others. Being in love can make you outgoing to others.

I don't have a clue but that is a good question+

Learn early, women want what other women have and they can't have. Always rmember that. That is a little favor this 56 year old lady is letting you in on.

Us girls just like to play mind games! But seriously, you are probably giving off confident and happy vibes when you are taken because you no longer worry about your love life in the "I'm single" sense. Maybe you should try to act the same way when you are single as well. :)

2 possible reasons. 1. when we are single and actively searching we sometimes look to hard, try too hard and generally focus so much on finding someone we often display traits of neediness, obsessiveness or are too quick to try to initiate relationships..others pick this up and it sends off vibes that maybe you are a little too concerned with finding any mate instead of the right one. Women in particular like a guy with confidence, who has himself together and is doing his thing, when you are single and not worried about finding someone but enjoying your life, it seems that's when someone pops in our lives...but if we go out to bars, clubs, libraries, grocery stores, etc looking it seems we either meet loonies or no one...probably because we are trying too hard. 2. let's face it, being with someone and being happy not only makes us happy, it makes us healthier and we seems to take better care of ourselves, we have more confidence, are happier and more secure withourselves because we have a mate and are not worried about that, so we are more relaxed and comfortable with who we are...and well yeah sometimes we are groomed a little better too. Women pick up on this as well, they like who you are in a relationship, how you project yourself and your confidence so it always seems we get more offers while in a relationship than when not in one. The real interesting thing is the person that finds you attractive while you are happily in a relationship, confident and secure might not find you as desireable if they met you when you were single and less confident, less groomed and/or less likely to be our true selves because when we search for a mate we sometimes project who we think we want potential mates to see as as and not always who we really are.

Desperation is very unattractive; people are naturally repelled by it; valley girls used to call it "being clingy"; ever wonder why nice guys always finish last and the ahole always has the girl? has nothing to do with who they are as a person, the nice guy acts like he needs her desperatly and is willing to agree on her terms; an ahole will dump her in a minute if better prospects come along and acts like he dont need her, that is more interesting; its something you cant have vs. something you already have.

Reality vs Imagination

I remember the same thing happening to me. It was crazy. No girlfried for months, then all of sudden I would have 2 or 3 at the same time. I don't think I was any different. I think they just saw me differently and then their competitive juices took off. Women are alwasy trying to beat other women.

It's the principle of availability, and it applies to men as well as women. People are more likely to see the value in something if someone else wants it first.

You'll find the same of the job market. When you don't need one, there's offers out the wazoo. When you're working, you have more confidence, when you're not, you have to work to be confident, and it shows. It never hurts to have girls as friends. Even when they don't like you 'that way', they have friends who might. Plus, what better way to get an insight as to what the opposite sex is thinking? Now when you have a girl that likes you 'that way', you need to make sure she is clear that you have friends that are girls, and that does not give her the right to tell you who you can have as friends.

Your luck seems to be upside down!