Would you date an obese person?
by 
Flapdoodle
ANSWERS: 15
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NO
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There has to be some level of physical attraction for me. I'm not the most in shape woman in the world, so I try to be open minded. I value good conversation and kindness much more than physical attraction. I believe that if you love someone, you'll BECOME attracted to them. So, in summation...I would, if they were a kind soul who loved me, and I was content, yes, I would.
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Probably not. I wouldn't really be attracted to an obese person - not only because they're obese but it shows that they don't take care of themselves - they don't watch what they eat and don't get enough exercise which I'm very conscious about so I don't think the relationship would really work out.
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I wouldn't mainly because I find them unattractive...
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If I were not married...yes I would; weight for me is not such a big issue. When I fall in love, it's more with the personality; once I'm in love with someone's personality then my love turns blind, lol.
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I did and I frankly hated it. The man had a mind like a diamond but the sex was...oh dear...nonexistent. His parts were impossible to get to and not much fun if you managed to find them. It was a shame. I wanted to think I was above such judgments of a person but he would have been so much fun if he had been even half the size he was. He got tired on walks. He could not hike. His health problems were complex and neverending and worst of all he hated himself. So yeah. Tried it and decided, fat ones are not for me. He was and is a great musician and friend.
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no..
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I am a guy & I will NOT date an obese woman. I think it indicates that she cannot keep her body and health in good condition.
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I don't see why not. It is cruel to judge a person by their size.
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Obesity is caused by many things. Medical conditions that cause a person to put on weight - chemotherapy for one - having seen a friend going through chemo and doubling in size due to the reaction her body had. It can also be a sign of deeper issues - emotional for example. For me, it's based on medical reasons - having a throat disorder that prevents me from being able to kep down fruit, vegetables, meat, salad. All I can have is soup, coffee and tea, potato chips and chocolate. IT is a real disorder for the doubters out there. And no, it's not fun. Considering I've put on a third of my body weight and have a tiny frame so have balooned out quite alot. So, before you judge us by our appearance, how about taking a few minutes to actually get to know who we are as people. Dating isn't just about sex. It's also an emotional connection. We can lose the weight whether it be via improvement in medical conditions or surgery if needed but beig that judgemental isn't something that can be so easily lost.
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I might date one but I wouldn't marry one. My mother is obese and has a lot of issues and those are issues I'm not prepared to deal with in a spouse. A few extra pounds is one thing but obesity takes it to a whole new level that I'm just not prepared to go back to.
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No, I could not and would not. We would have nothing in common and I would get mad whenever he got tired from walking or any other exercise. I would be extremely annoyed watching him sit on the couch with a remote in one hand and a bag/box/bowl of food in the other the same goes for other sedentary activities. The other thing is I thought I could overlook the obesity and thought he was nice but he was a real jerk on top of all of it. There were no pluses. Been there, done that and got the T-shirt. Not again. never. I literally exercise every day unless I am sick or take a day off and then I only usually take one day off. I often run 5k 4-6 times a week and walk my dogs several times a week and do weight training as well as rollerblading. Being athletic is a lifestyle and if someone is not athletic and in shape then their values don't match mine so... no I would not date a really overweight person. Maybe a little chubby but otherwise no, not an obese person. He doesn't have to have a rockin body but he must be in good shape and share similar exercise interests.
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Yes provided they have mega massive: tits, belly, thighs, & ass I like BBWS & SSBBWS they are hot.
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If I find out that she is the most beautiful person on the inside I will make it my personal mission to also make her as beautiful as she can be on the outside. This would only make me care even more for her heart, literally, since her health would be a major concern of mine. We would both get bikes and ride off into the sunset together, slimming down and broadening our horizons as we go.
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Not morbidly obese...but slightly yes.
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