Choose a girlfriend you can trust. Not this one.

Ah...break up with her? If you can't trust a person then you're wasting your time.

When a person lies to you it is their attempt at negating your right to feel how you will feel about them if they tell you the truth. Over time it becomes habitual and they kind of go on automatic and do it mostly out of insecurity. Think of it like this; She is simply afraid that if you knew the truth that you would love her less or worse...abandon her for someone else she feels, you feel, is better than she is... because she herself can't get past her own past. Which esentially, is your right and your choice. Love... allows the potential for that choice, but hopes that it will survive it anyway. Some people after a lifetime of dissappointment and failure, can't forgive themselves and where unforgivenss is, trust issues always follow. People wind themselves up into horrible places of habitual negativity and defensive stances meant to protect their hearts. It is your job if you truely do love her to let her know that it is protected reguardless. She needs to know that for all her mistakes, you value her anyway. Then and only then you will recieve the respect and the honestly that you need. Love requires a sacrifice sometimes. It is probably not something she is doing to hurt you, actually it probably isn't about you at all. The best advice I can offer you concerning that, is as a man... for you to always be who and what you are reguardless of external influences on your resolve. A woman needs to feel secure more than anything else. Talk to her and let her know that you can't be shaken... If you love her, let her know it verballs and by your actions that no matter what you have made a choice to be with her for everything she is, was and has the potential to become under the gentleness of your love and acceptance ofher. If you feel that you will get hung up on thi or that out of your own insecurity... THen break it off now and be the stronger of the two of you and move on. A past is something that we can't change... But the future depends on the measure by which you are able to let it go and let it heal. Good luck to you darling. Both of you.

If she is lying to you a "LOT" now .... how much worse will it get as you go further into your relationship .. ? There has to be HONESTY or there will be absolutely NO Trust and without the TRUST .. there can be NO real relationship .....

relationships are based on three things physical attraction social attraction and trust if she is lying alot to you it may be a bad sign but if there is something in her past that is her hurting her so much she is trying to cover it up you need to just let her know your there for her and she can tell you and you will help her get past whatever it is no matter what it is you would have to keep cool about it just talk about it hope this helps... :)

Break up with her. A relationship isn't much if you don't have trust.