ANSWERS: 12
  • What should you do? Wash your hands of this cad forever. Anyone who is such a clod and clueless as to break up in an email isn't worth going out with. Find someone with balls instead.
  • call him and ask him to meet you somewhere. You're not going to get true closure until you tell him what you need to say to his face. If he doesn't want to meet you then just say what you need to say over the phone. use e-mails as a last resort.
  • Well, just walk away. You're a woman, so you won't, but that'd be best. LEARN from this. LEARN. And go after the next one.
  • Thank heaven it wasn't a text.
  • call him and give him a piece of your mind. that bastard deserves to know what he left behind.
  • Don't bother. If he isn't man enough to tell you directly, then he's clearly not the one for you.
  • You should do neither. You think you are going to feel better if you say things to him, but it's not going to change anything. If you really need to write down your thoughts, do that, but do not send it to your boyfriend. He was very cowardly to break up with you that way so you need to get him behind you as soon as possible and move on. Good luck!
  • Express your feelings in writing, and send it via snailmail...composing a written letter is a lost art, and doing so will give you the time you need to phrase your thoughts coherently without saying things you may regret at a later point in time.
  • breaking up by e-mail is a pretty cowardly thing to do and shows what he is made of, you are so much better off, without this loser. Consider yourself lucky that you didn't get married and have to take his loser name or wake up looking at him
  • I tell my friends this everytime and the ones who half listen have better mental health. Ignore the prick, you're better off without someone who's so cowardly and inconsiderate to break up with you through email. Be done with him, have a burn all his pictures and things ritual. Invite your friends, make a party out of it.
  • Do whatever your comforatble with, he can decide if he wants answer his phone or respond to your email. What is it you need closure from, he said it's over, that closure.
  • First compose yourself. Let him wait for a couple of days. Don't be hasty to answer him. Control that emotion. Then email him that you were contemplating a break up too (don't give any reason); and thank him for saving you the embarrassment of having to say it first. Move on. It's a good thing the break up came now, and not after marriage and kids.

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