ANSWERS: 17
  • forget him, your a girl, you can get sex anytime any place
  • The fact that he sat down with your parents and asked for forgiveness is a big step, i've never known a guy to do that but you have to set boundaries and he has to know what they are....it's really up to you what to do but my bf cheated on me and we are still trying to sort through everything, i said i'd never stay with a cheater too but it's easy to say those things when it's not happening right! If you set boundaries and he oversteps them then he is not showing respect for you or your relationship and then he doesn't deserve you...do what you think is right whether it's leaving him or giving him another a chance...in the end only you can decide...:)
  • Leave him as you do not need to deal with the excuse that the alcohol made him do it. I was a D&A counselor in the military and can tell you that the excuse of drunk is just the excuse and not true at all. Next time and there will be a next time will he have selpt with another girl and blame it on the alcohol. Sorry, but being honest as I see it.
  • So; the next time he gets drunk and decides to have SEX with another girl ; is that going to be ok ... because he was drunk at the time ... ?? And; he WILL be remorseful and sorry .... and it continues on and over again ...
  • I advise you to - if it is in your heart to do so - forgive him this. Make sure he understands this is his one chance. And most importantly make it his only chance. If he fails you again in this way you must leave.
  • well i say forgive him count it as his second chance and don't let him drink anymore as punishment since drinking is bad anyway its a plus
  • I'm wondering why he chose to approach your parents before you. Sounds like a pre-empt. He's a bit crafty. eh? Take heed!
  • I think since he's clearly so remorseful you should forgive him, but that's his one chance. At least he owned up to it and all that.
  • I guess you could give him this one chance. But not two chances.
  • Kiss (someone else) and make up :)
  • alcohol/drugs is a shitty excuse to cheat. Going to your parents only proves that he is smart enough to know it increases his odds. I would buy the remorse bit more if he did not try and blame it on the booze. dump his ass or he will be getting drunk every now and being remorseful after he gets drunk again and again and again...........
  • I would be inclined to forgive him. I think that we all make mistakes at some point, and he seems genuinely sorry. Make it known that he will not get another chance though! ... I have taken back a man after he cheated, and we were very happy after. So I am sure the same can be said for you. If you can't get it out of your mind though, or if even though you may forgive you simply can't "forget", then the best thing may be to not stay with him. It will taint the relationship. if you are the kind of person, like me, who can't completely let go of things. Then say your good-byes now to save pain in the long run.
  • Give him another chance!Just like the all powerful Almighty gives umpteen chances to us....
  • Forgive him and innundate him with kisses, if and only if you really love him and would want to be his partner for life.
  • Wow...that's a big step. He seems to really want to take responsibility for his actions and do the right thing. I'd have a serious conversation with him and lay down the law, so to speak. Let him know that cheating won't be tolerated....And if getting drunk leads to poor choices, then he may want to lay off the drink.
  • All of my abusers and cheaters SEEMED remorseful, all part of their act to get you back and then they know you have that weakness and they will use it against you again and again and the famous words that work on most: "I love you"
  • if u take him back right away he knows that u r weak and will prey on that weakness. make him suffer by asking him to wait a year and if he can without getting drunk and kissing other girls then you will take him back. goood luck+4.

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