Figure out if she does it intentionally or not. And if it is done intentionally, then make a brave move. goodluck dude.

If all she does is what you are saying, get things set up so you can work on your computer in your room or go to the library to use the computer. Spend as much time with your friends as you can. Take care of your own business (meaning school, homework and your other obligations) and count the days until you can graduate and be out on your own or off to college. * If there is more to it than you are saying: For example, if she is abusing you in any way, tell your Dad. If he can't or won't help you remember that there are organizations set up to help and protect you. You can always turn to a school counselor or a trusted member of your church for help. Or you can call a hotline number if you ever really need help. * Here is a Crisis Hotline number that may be helpful to you: Covenant House Hotline: 800-999-9999 Crisis line for youth, teens, and families. Gives callers locally based referrals throughout the United States. Provides help for youth and parents regarding drugs, abuse, homelessness, runaway children, and message relays. Operates 24 hours, seven days a week. * I only offer all of this because I know someone who could very well be saying exactly what you are saying and who needs to know this information. If you need to know it too, here it is. * Blessings!

Move out and get your own apartment.

Remember, parents are advised to watch what kids are doing on their computers and not to allow them to have a computer away from the family living room. Join a club or sports group, with the support of your dad. Get out of the house as much as you can. This may be what she wants too.

but i wud also like to add dat u shud talk to her out...as by what u said i dont think its way too serios thing..lets just assume if same thing ur biological mom wud do,u wud just think seein dis behaviour of hers that she must be goin thru sum rough time.why dont u think this way.. try to find out if she is doin this intentionally then why she is doin this..dont involve ur father in earlier stage if sumthin goes out of ur hand then get ur father in..but remember one thing when theres sum problem in any relation its always because it wud be two way thing..when u give ur 100% in any relation then u wud never find urself uncomfortable in that relation..and the other person wud start respectin u even if that person was ur biggest enemy..i hope u got my point..try to see things with normal perspective..we usually take strong hold of our negative perspective when we deal with break-ups and step relations...hope i was of little help.. take care..:)

Tell her to keep her distance away from you. plain and simple.

Well....what if she considers you as her DAUGHTER. Is nosey becuase she wants to keep an eye out on who YOUR TALKING TO.... You know you can always sit on the floor.... She is still your STEP MOM... AND IT IS ALSO HER HOUSE. HER HOUSE...she can do WHATEVER SHE WANTS TO DO. And you need to learn to respect that... Cuz your gonna havta live with her....as long as you are still a child.... Maybe ask her NICELY...to skoot... talk to her like a person, and not some STEP MOM.. Treat her like a parent... Maybe she wouldnt be so rude... Do you call her annoying, nosey, fat, ugly, and rude??? and that she drives you insane? IF YOU WERE MY STEP DAUGHTER I WOULDNT BE THE NICEST TO YOU....if you hated me like that.

Just tie a donut to a string and stick and lure her away maybe down the basement and lock her up for awhile. Ofcourse leave the box of donuts down there to keep her occupied. All the ppl I know with step-moms hate them, not one I have seen ever enjoyed there company lol. if she's cool just let her know how you feel and that you want space, but since she is so incredibly fat that might be hard. Go buy some rotiseriie chicken at the grocery store and give it to her that will knock her out real fast rince an repeat when you want her out of your hair.

hide twinkies all around the house and when she is searching sit on the couch

I would talk to your Dad about it. There's really nothing much you can do about it yourself.

i would ask her if i could sit down onn the couch in front of you dad or company and if she says no then the company will get mad at her and so will you dad and maybe divorice her and it would be the life just like it used to be or if she says yes you may sit down in front of the companyand your dad then you would be able to sit down on your sofa and you would be able to sit down on your coutch and always make up an exsuce to you dad and say come toi the living room dad your favorite shows on because his favorite show you would record and watch it and play the recorded show and he will watch it and you would ask your step mom to move her legs a little and let u sit if she doesnt let u sit then says no then your dad will get mad at her andget in a fight then maybe a divorice and when she walks past your computer screen well then should save up your allowence and tell your dad that you have enough money for a laptop and buy a laptop and go to some kind of secret hide out that you make and your step mom could never find you and then she can not see what u are doing on you computer screen and if your ever on your phone she might pick up the phone and listen to your conversation on the phone so make sure you get a cell phone or save up another set of your allowence and bye a cell phone where she can not here your conversation only if you do not have a cell phone

Throw the couch... she wont know what to do!

Pray that your 18th birthday comes quckly . And then move out .

Have a heart to heart talk about sex. Get deep in the conversation, have her talk about her experiences and then let the mental images flow, then see how long it takes you to throw up. It'll be a fun game you have with your new stepmom. If she won't stop staring at the screen, just watch "2 girls 1 cup" when she's looking. That'll put a stop to her voyeurism.

You asked this in April; it's the end of June now. Have you followed any of the advice you have bben given? How well did it work?

Children are monitored so they do not get themselves into a lot of trouble. If you show you can be trusted then you will be monitored less. Maybe she isn't looking at what you are doing as much as you think or you are spending an unusual amount of time on the net. You know, you really don't have much privacy rights until you are 18 and then limited if your live in the home of someone else. There are lots of sources of warnings of the danger of the internet to children (and yes, you still are one). Maybe that's her biggest concern. There are really some good answers here from what I assume are people of your age level. I am a grandparent so you can consider me 'out of touch' if you wish.

Move out........spend more time outside of the house.......tell her that those things annoy you.........talk to your dad about it.........That's all I got.

Just keep counting the days.

dangle a hot dog in front of her and when she jumps up to get it... everyone make a run for the couch.

What exactly do you think you're achieving by talking behind her back on here? I think it's helping you achieve a more negative attitude which would probably cause you to be even ruder to her which would cause her to wonder why your attitude is so snobbish which would cause her to want to find out what you're doing online which would cause her to find out you're talking smack about her on here which would cause her to not want you to use the Internet.........ok, do you get the point? And, really, why does it matter that nobody has any space to sit down since apparently when she DOES get off the couch you always seem to be on the computer anyway?

talk to her.. tell her what makes you piss of when she's like that.. and if she don't care at all then talk to your dad.. and if your dad won't even care too at all.. then.. get tell your dad that you need a new place to live in.. lol.. well, that would probably be my actions to that.

So, what part about her is "annoying"--the "nosiness", or the "being really fat?" What you should do, is give her the respect due a "parent", until you become old enough to move out to your OWN place.

I recommend moving out.

Tell me what you think after reading this question out loud about being rude.

Okay so I'll give you a more serious answer. I tried to take a humorous approach... since I found the question some what funny. My mom married a fat guy... and I hated him for the first little bit. I thought he was rude... and red neck... and nosey and really mean... but as I got to know him more... the less annoying he became. He taught me how to drive... and he actually gave some pretty good advice when I actually stopped to listen to him. Just give it time you might be singing a different tune if you give her a chance.

What ya mean there's no place to sit? You should take advantage of the situation especially in the winter. She'd be really cushiony and the body heat would heat the house for days.................