If you had the chance to tell someone off that had in the past hurt you in some way, would you do it and do you think you would feel better afterwards?
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Gracin the Strange
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yes, i dont like to hold those kind of thoughts
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No, I wouldn't do it. Anything that has happened in the past I have done my best to forgive and let go. It's not healthy to hang on to that anger. I let myself be upset about things when they happen, and then I do my best to move on. I don't need to revisit anything, it won't make me feel any better.
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If i stil respected them i would want to sort it out especially if i couldn't work out what my part of the blame was. if they had done me no deliberate or major damage and i still respected/liked them it wouldn't matter.. and i suppose if they had hurt me that badly (& i _knew_ they did it maliciously) i'd not want to even soil my perceptions with the knowledge of their existence... :-)
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I would love to let them know how they hurt me and what it has done to my life - My Dad - Abuse Heck yeah I'd feel better
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I have done it,so I would.I felt better when I did,because I helped make them aware that they can impact a persons life in a negative or positive way.Some people do and say hurtful things without realizing it or even thinking about it.I would also tell someone off if I saw it being done to someone else in the moment.
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No, I wouldnt want them to think that Im so stuck on them that I'd actually waste my time on them like that. Chances are if they hurt me I am way over them by now and dont care anymore. Of course it had an impact on my life but I wouldnt have anything more to say to them. If I did actually do that it would probably make me upset all over again anyway.
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