ANSWERS: 4
  • I thought oral sex *was* sex. In answer to your question, you are what you are. You can suppress your gay side, but to suppress something that is so much a part of you is generally pretty harmful.
  • Psst - oral sex scenes are SEX. No, you cannot choose your orientation. It is inborn.
  • Consider the difference between sexual attraction and romantic attraction. Personally, I'm 150% gay -- never been attracted to a woman, and I've never fallen in love with a woman despite the fact that most of my closest friends are women. But I have met people who I believe genuinely are bisexual, but they draw the same distinction you do -- that they might be attracted to both sexes, but they're emotionally drawn more to one or the other. Bottom line -- go with whoever you want to go grocery shopping with or clean the house with. That's going to take up a lot more of your time than sex, anyway. :-) But make sure you genuinely know who you are, rather than who other people expect you to be, before you make a decision. Always remember that you're not the only one in the relationship equation -- and if you're not putting their interests a little bit ahead of your own, or at least equal to your own, then a relationship is probably not a good idea.
  • Oral sex IS sex. You cannot choose your sexual orientation, it's inborn. Sounds like you are bisexual.

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