ANSWERS: 5
  • there are two things on this : 1) either you make a mindset that whatever decisions are taken have already been taken, you are just executing it and you are here to understand and execute those decisions, you are living the life as it comes though at some point it seems that this is the decision YOU have taken but, when you really try to find, WHAT is so called "you", you will feel that it just had to happen. 2) another approach is : think as if life is in ur control fully, though something you cant avoid but still some personal decisions are in your hand, you are free to do choices and you will be responsible for the end result that may be good or bad for you. for me, with a above 2 mixed approach, I would never know whether some decision would change my life completely or not, because if I had not taken those decisions then, I would have done something else, but that doest seem to be much sensible thinking, because you have to walk along with the timline, you cant escape it, so I cant judge that my all decisions were correct because still I am paying for it and still its affecting my life some or the other way.
  • Breaking up with my 1st wife, a very difficuly choice at the time but i have no regrets now.
  • Leaving school to soon ... and not pursue a greater education ...
  • Moving from one state to another - It turned out Ok.
  • Putting my son in a pysch unit first and second time.

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