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  • That SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't know how to deal with that. He really messed up.
  • I am very sorry to hear about your circumstances. Once trust is violated, it is nearly impossible to get back. It will be a long time before you trust him again, if you ever do. The way it works, though, is this. You either need to forgive him and go on with the relationship or dump him. I see from your question, that you do not want to end it. Time is the only way to get over such devastation. I commend you for trying to work through such a mess. You sound like a very forgiving person. I would sit him down and have a LONG talk with him. I would make him account to you for all his time away from you. Have him write down what he does in a week, twenty four/seven. I would also make totally sure the woman he cheated with is out of his life. Do not let him give you any bull about him and her being friends, either. Then, you need to move on. Do not "rub the incident in his face." Keep the relationship going and reach out and try to start over. Good luck! If you wish, please post a comment on how things worked out.

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