Your mum and dad have been happily married for 30 years plus, you unexpectidly turn up at their house while your mum was at work and found your dad with someone else, would you tell your mum?
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ANSWERS: 12
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No, but I would threaten to, to goad my father into doing the right thing and telling her.
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No, talk to your dad about what you observed and let him take care of the situation,,,don't be a tattle-tale all that will cause is hurt feelings for you in the end. Did you ever think your mother may even know about it? Some long term marriages have such agreements believe it or not. Get the whole story from your father then with him decide what should be the outcome...above all leave your mother out for the time being anyway.
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I would make sure my dad knew that I had caught them - and give him an opportunity to tell mum. The last thng mum needs is the thought that everyone else knew before she did. You can support mum better if she doesn't have lots of questions of you - what did you see etc....encourage dad to tell her himself but make it clear that if he doesn't you will....
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I wouldn't jump to conclusions ... but if he was truly seeing another woman .... YES I would tell her.
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this is why my parent got divorced, except my mom was cheating, my dad blamed me for years....so Id say stay out of it!
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I'd tell her because this is what happened. I know what calms her down and the old man doesn't. It's been his near end several times, because she's very good with cutlery and we have hungry pigs out back...
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if i truely believed my mum was happy with him, i wouldn't tell her. 30 years is a long time! i would however tell him to stop seeing this other women, or any other women, or i would tell her within a heartbeat!
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? blackmail him?
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Even though My father would have never done such a thing.I know I would tell her if he had.I would feel she should know.Is My opinion.Doesnt make it right or wrong.Just Mine.
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i think i would run away as i would be truly shocked by my dad doing such a thing
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Lets see 30 years of happily married, more than likely your MUM already knows and in a lot of cases approves, because it makes her life with him more of a joy and maybe just maybe she also see's someone that does the same for him, so don't make a big deal of it you just might not like the answers you get or the trouble you cause between them, their success may not fit into your IDea's of marriage but it may fit into theirs Love them, Respect them and remember their personal lives are not yours .. ~Nemo~
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Knowing me…first I'd beat that bitches ass. Then I'd need to have a talk with my father. I might get slapped cause I'd cuss him out too. I’d really would have to think about telling my mom. I know it was destroy her. I would tell her in the end.
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