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ask her what she feels comfortable with, talking is key here. you may have to take it slow for a while, hold off the kinky stuff. this is common with women who have been abused sexually. theyy start out hot, because she has feelings for you. but then, she loses it because the flashbacks jump in and invade. youhave to gain her trust sexually. which means, yes, that dreaded word, making love. im sure not what you wanted to hear, but it really the only way.
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What she needs is a psychological boost. People are more than just emotional, physical, and spiritual, but are also psychological. Therefore, you need to apply these few tactics. Give her plenty of space and time by not having sex with her. Find other ways to spend time together and other things to do that are leisure. Ask her to join you. Be a gentleman. You have more to offer her than a penis. When she starts to open up like a flower, slowly but progressively romance her and charm her to let her know that you are very much attracted to her in many ways including sexually. Be open-minded and responsive to her emotional needs. Sex will then get a lot better for the both of you.
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Try having her do things to you. Let HER be the aggressor (for lack of a better word). Let her feel like no matter what, she WILL have control during intimate times with you, as she probably didn't before. The real key words here are "time & patience". Yes, you'll have to talk. You need to know as many details as possible, so you don't accidentally replicate one. Talk, play around, pretend your in Jr. high again. Maybe you'll have to take care of yourself for a while, but when she's ready to take care of you, it'll be all the better, for the BOTH of you. Worked for us!
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i know this may be boring but you should talk to her and see whats wrong talk to her and go to a therapist maybe
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ok... funny enuogh I Am in the same situation, I am all excited at first then i LOOSE MY APPITITE for sex completely even witout having my climaxing... trust me U CANT HELP IT, it's hard and it's even harder when you notice that your'r partner is not happy with that. Ok try this... Before having sex try giving her oral sex... that way she would be too horny to stop, and go on top of her, have sex with her while stimulating her clit, that will take her toughts away from anything else, now at the begining try to only please her when you have sex and when she gets more comfortable with it... you can get to business. LOL. Hope I helped
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Just to make it clear, I think I behave like that sometimes because I lost my virginity with an asswhole, he didn't even care if it was bleeding or hurting me, so that's What I mean when I tell you to give her pleasure and show her that love making is not that bad afterall, show her you care about what she is feeling... please give me a feedback if it worked.
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