Christina aguilera dirrty! its fab for dancing and stripping to. start by dressing in clothes that are easy to get off quickly. You also need to make sure you time the strip and dance to the end of the music, you dont want to be still half dressed and the music finished. Start with him sitting on a chair in the centre of a large room.... give yourself plenty of room for moving around the chair. have your back facing him when the music starts for a few secs, start to slowly open your buttons while turning your head round to look at him... make eye contact, then slide the clothes off one shoulder, turn around face him and open a few more buttons while your seductively dancing, run your hands up and down your body caressing yourself the whole time, then turn around with your back to him and reveal the other shoulder undo the final buttons and lose that top by seducively giving it a swing into the air. always try to wear hotpants or a skirt with long boots or high heels.... never take the footwear off the rest will come to you. It is easy. I done it for a strangers birthday party and got paid £90 for 4 mins work... not bad! and it was in front of 120 people. Just relax, once the music starts all your fears will go away. It helps to have the music quite loud too. Good luck

Use some music that you like dancing to. I'd use the classic Joe Cocker - "you can leave your hat on" or some Prince. Start by just walking around to the music (and yes, play it loud), so you get in to the groove of it. Gerrik's tips are really good. I can only add the spreading your fingers when you touch self downwards and collect them again going back up (legs particularly)

Oh girl I got a laundry list of songs ;) I love music during sex/foreplay (then again I guess it depends on your tase in music but here are my suggestions): Candy Shop - 50 Cent Baby Did a Bad Bad Thing - Chris Isaak Bailamos - Enrique Iglesias Bootylicious - Destiny's Child My Prerogative/I'm a Slave For You/Toxic - Britney Spears Crazy - Aerosmith Closer - Nine Inch Nails (very dark n sexy) Honey - Mariah Carey I Wanna Be Bad - Willa Ford If You Had My Love/Waiting for Tonight (remix) - J Lo Hey Lover - LL Cool J Erotic/Justify My Love (2 very powerful songs)/Secret - Madonna My Love is For Real - Paula Abdul Naughty Girl - Beyonce My Way - Usher Peaches and Cream - 112 Rock the Boat - Aaliyah Sexy Lady/Freaky Girl - Shaggy Tell Me - Groove Theory Let's Do It Again/Red Light Special - TLC Touch It - Monifah Too Close - Next You Rock My World - Michael Jackson (obviously I have a list of songs saved here lol)Enjoy/have fun :)

Burlesque music from the 50s and 60s. Gets me off everytime.

Her is my list of stripping songs These boots were made for walking Short dick man erotica jutify my love(fuck me version) hanky panky(Madonna) nasty girl you gotta kick it love to love ou baby push push in the bush i know what boys like telephone man i wanna be loved by you kiss kiss kiss

Marcy Playground - Sex and Candy

This one could work ;)

the strippers i know like the now cds as in now 1-now23

Get hold of The Fashionistas soundtrack and stick on "Empty" by Javier Calderon. If you get a chance watch the film too and see how Belladonna does the dance. Very very erotic!

Contemporary Christian.

So many women who try to lap dance to fast music end up bobbing up and down awkwardly like ostriches on fast forward. Take your time. Let him savour every moment. The music you choose should inspire fluid movements that run together smoothly, and involve a lot of gentle touching- running your hand along the side of his face, letting your hair fall around his neck, sliding your feet down the top of his thighs. Wish I could write that well...I took that from an email a friend sent me. She's on an email newsletter that teaches women how to give a man please lap dance. You can sign up here....www.lapdanceunleashed.com Hope that helps.