I know this girl who I used to be iterested in. Really nice...anyways, I was just casually talking to her one day, (she didn't know that I had a thing for her), and she says this; "Yeah, I've slept with 10 guys in just this past semester alone!" That was it for me.

Depends on what's the cause behind all of this. Was she meeting the wrong people, or did she do it for her own? I'd say, if her past has changed her from what she was to what she is, and you are liking the her now, then you shouldn't feel puzzled. i.e. If she is becoming more careful with people, then that's a good thing.

men usually dont give a sh**

I couldn't care less. I only care about who my partner is having sex with now.

If the number is something anywhere near like a 100 I wouldn't touch her with a 20 foot pole (no pun intended) for my own safety. Apart from that I don't think that matters much, but to be honest if she's had more experience my head will probably wander (though I'll try not to show it, at least initially till I "seal the deal" :D) and start thinking things like what kind of kinky stuff she's done i.e. has she had sex with multiple partners stuff like that. Whether that stuff matters in the long run, I don't know cause I've never been in such a situation.

Well, I think you should focus on what it means to you rather than just latching on to some arbitrary number. Try to think about what's behind the number. Is she grossly insecure? If so, that's likely to cause trouble for you later on. Is the number so high for her age it suggests she might have a problem, a real problem refusing sexual advances? Again, that's something that could cause problems later. You need to think about what was going on with her at the time to decide if this is a problem for you. Are any of these men close personal friends of yours? Does she continue to have regular contact with any of them? I would definitely think twice before getting involved if either is the case. Finally, at the risk of sounding sexist. I will say that If she's overly brazen about her sexual exploits, I believe you are totally justified in finding it a major turn off. Being indelicate about sex is something most men would consider unfeminine, and therefore unattractive to them personally. A man should never need to apologize for admiring femininity.

Would this have anything to do with how many women the man has slept with? I mean, is there a difference?

I'll answer this as a bisexual girl, if you don't mind: I don't care how many she has slept with, as long as she didn't get any diseases from them that could be passed on to me and/or are killing her. I try not to judge people by their sex lives, as there's nothing wrong with having one.

This is just another case of double-standards. When men are young, it is always in their "best interest" to sleep with as many women as possible before settling down. Why would it not work the same way with women? Are we not entitled to have some fun before we settle down with that special someone? I say as long as there is a clean bill of health everything is good to go. You can be with a woman who has only had 1 partner besides you and get an STD. Numbers dont mean too much.

1 is one too many for me

most guys have sex on their mind CONSTANTLY and become apprehensive when a woman they like is the same way...you'd think that'd be a good thing! lets think logically, it's very simple: guys, think of all the women you've had sex with. Now think of all the women you've WANTED to have sex with. Thats right, whether you saw them on tv, mags, and especially while driving or out in public. Pretty different numbers right? N-O-W REALIZE!! part 1) For females, pretty much ANYBODY who's turned them on/who she's "WANTED" to have sex with??? SHE CAN!!! Maybe not guys on tv, mags, etc., but guys she meets IN PERSON, IT'S PRETTY MUCH REALITY THAT SHE CAN HAVE THEM. (and even for those guys who think they get laid a lot, you still can't get laid as much as a woman can get laid..even if she's fat, ugly, no job, no money and seven times divorced, she can get laid..not saying she can make a guy leave his wife, fall in love, or empty his bank account on her, but *A*N*Y* WOMAN CAN GET LAID MORE THAN THE MOST HANDSOME OF THE HANDSOME MAN) Part 2) Now, if you REALLY consider this, even if that number of men she's slept with is 1000, isn't it understandable? Guys, YOU'VE CERTAINLY wanted to sleep with at least that number of women...think about it..the cute girl walking down the street, the neighbor you're so curious about, the co-worker you've always wondered about... The numbers are pretty high when you think of all the women you would sleep with if they allowed you to WITH NO COMPLICATIONS. [ Women enjoy sex as much as you do, believe it or not. It's just that women usually are picky because they have the option of having good sex, where compared to MOST guys, they're not so picky about good sex or bad sex BECAUASE MEN PRETTY MUCH ORGASM EVERY TIME - not so for women if she has a bad lover, but I'm getting away from the subject here ] So this public service announcement goes out to those guys who have very long lists of women they'd like to bang, but then think a woman's past lover list can be "too long" or a certain number would make them "reconsider their feelings about said woman" Not making a point based on old fashioned double-standards, this point based on LOGIC I wouldnt care what the number were as long as it was safe sex.

The answer is different if she's 16, 20, 30, 40, or 50. If she's a hooker, you can expect a higher number. If she's an ex-nun, I would expect a lower number. If she's a Catholic school girl, there's no limit. :)

I don't want to know the exact number. It can't help and can only hurt. Of course, we would talk a lot about our past and where we had been, what we did, but nothing in too much detail and certainly no details or specific sex stories. Having few partners is okay but a whole lot of past sex partners is not something I don't want to hear. As long as she is faithful, loves me, and disease free, I am okay with that.

666 If she's going to go that high, I want to be number 666. Until that point... oh well.

That depends on her age: Two guys per year after 18 Lets assume she's 23. So 10 guys at max! But she will always divide the number by half i.e. 5

If the number met or exceeded her age, I don't think I could get too serious about her.

No such thing as too many :)

Anything after the number of men she sleeps with after she starts dating you exclusively may be considered too many.

I don't think there is too many. Doesn't matter who she has been with before you all that matters is that you are the only one she is with from now on!!

i dont think it matters as long as she has not cheated or been with married men or something... the way i see it is she is with you now and as long as she is faithful then its all good. i did not judge my bf because he picked me im the one he is with now and thats all that matters... just make sure she is loyal and may get tested if it has been a lot even one person can give you something so act on the safe side

'under ten and il see you again!'

I dont care how many...Usually, they dont pass my number...so im good.

Did they use it up?