Holy shit! Between the two of yuz, you covered every cult known to man

You don't. You must go to the Church that fits you, and he can go to the Church that fits him. Neither of you has to compromise. What if he wanted to join Scientology, would you compromise?

i am Christian, been baptised, but I joined Jesus, not a building or a group of people and their ways..joining HIM is a personal thing, that only HE has the POWER to remove u from HIM or ADD us too!!!spiritually right is not comprimising yourself OR God for someone else common ground.... it does not matter where u are to stay spiritually joined with Jesus/God..it's totally ur heart condition and Obediance to HIM that God demands and will judge us by... the personal relationship with God in your children is the most important thing parents can bring to them..not the rituals ,worship practices, an assembly has ...for instance, alms, willingly ,is all God wants, and gifts do not solely have to be given in a church plate...if u took your $20.00 a week and bought groceries or a sick person's meds...that is what God sees and u store up in heaven... the children do need unity in God from u and ur husband...teach them urself in example and knowledge ,instead of just their teacher and preacher, a man's word,..... me , for my children, I would give the best Gift God gave us, the Hope of Salvation...i would go, but u are already joined...I know many whose husbands have not joined but they still go...one day ,their wives ,by example would hopefully bring them to join God...thats what HE tells u to do... mixing beliefs in marriage is the mixed marriages God speaks of, not impossible , but hard for the marriage and hard for the children..... the reason Israelites were told to marry in Faith only..stay away from others of other belief's...but many not of the Faith came,even Jesus lineage has converts... for ur kids sake ,get stable, comprimise with husband but u do not have to join something u don't want to ..for the children,endure...:)justme