I am 25 bringing my boyfriend to stay overnight at my parents house for the weekend. What is my mom's reason why she doesn't want us to sleep in same bed?
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Because no matter how old you are, you are always going to be her baby. Plus I dont know about your background but she may not believe in sex before marriage, and especially not in her house. Otherwise, I would ask her why she doesn't want you to sleep in the same bed.
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The thought of your kids having sex under the same roof isn't a pleasant one, but she should just realise that it's natural and there's nothing wrong with it.
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My stepfather doesnt like for me to sleep in the same bed with my BF because of my younger sister. Plus I dont think he likes the fact of me being that close to a man.
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Why dont you ask her??Maybe she doesnt like the thought of what you may do under her roof,and its true no matter how old you are you will always be her little girl
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Well, more than likely she subscribes to a distaste for pre-marital sex or is uncomfortable with the possiblility of her child having sex in their home. Should it be difficult to conform to their house rules for the weekend if you love them? It's only the weekend, and you can only not be together at night. Out of respect for your parents, don't make a big deal out of it.
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well in my family we go old style. Even though we dont do it there way! you dont sleep with a guy until your married. Maybe your mom is like that too. or maybe she's scare you could get pregnant and he might not be there!
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Maybe she has to wash the bedsheets.
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being pregnant before you are married can cause lots of problems. Even though you might have control to not do anything "dirty" you mom's just trying to protect you.
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This is a common thing with parents and daughters no matter how old you are. It is after all her home and just for a weekend it would not hurt to obey her house rules . It will keep her happy and is not exactly going to do you a lot of harm , you are still her child and will always be thought of as such
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g'day Anonymous, Thank you for your question. I suspect that she doesn't approve of pre-marital sex. You might want to discuss it with her. Given that it is for one night, I would comply with her wishes. It will be different if and when you get married, I'm sure. Regards
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I am 25 bringing my boyfriend to stay overnight at my parents house for the weekend. What is my mom's reason why she doesn't want us to sleep in same bed? It’s interesting to read that all the replies go straight to “making babies.” If (and this is none of my business) are actively into “hooftie magooftie” then have you thought about just talking to your mum about it. One, your old enough to make your own decisions, and the other thought is if I where a parent, I would rather have my child safe at home with the boyfriend, then out there somewhere. I would start the conversation with, “Mum, I’m twenty five, I’m not your little baby anymore, get over it”!
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Because she does not want to hear you having a bunk-up in the middle of the night. If you are in the same bed, whatever you may say, you probably will and this makes others in the house embarrassed. It's only one night and it is in her house, not yours, sleep apart. Your sex life is private and should be left that way - you don't normally want parents involved in any way at all, especially when they are in the room across the hall and you know damn well, they cannot help but hear everything. Show good manners and courtesy, this is being an adult. You are in somebody else's house and therefore you should accept and abide by their rules as you would expect them to do, should they be staying in your home overnight. If you can't manage this, then you and he should book a hotel room instead.
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Reminds me of something my friend say a while back (not sure if he was quoting somebody else though) "We need to keep the environment clean for our children. But not our children's children, because I don't like the idea of my kids having sex"
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I think it depends on your situation. If you live with your boyfriend and your mom knows this, I don't think she has a right to keep you separated at night. You could always get a hotel room.
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So she can sleep peacefully without thinking about what her child/baby (no matter your age you are always her baby) is doing.... Also maybe she doesn't want to condone premarital sex. while yes you re grown and can make decisions on your own if your are staying in her house and she allows this then she is saying to you in effect it is okay.
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Dirty sheets.
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My husband's parents were the same way when he and I were still dating. She may just be stuck in the "old fashion" beliefs that her parents drilled in her head. In which case, have sex in your car on a country road before hand.
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