The person sounds horrible. If i were you i would just stop hanging around with them completely. You dont need people like that in your life.

Tell her nothing, just completely stop hanging out with her if possible. If she starts talking to you, just walk away. It is always better to get rid of a cancer like that.

See, with guys we have rules. We set them out if people break the rules we either beat the snot out of them or ostracize them. If you like a guy, and he's not already crushing on your friend, call a dibs (as stupid as it sounds) ask your friend to back off from him because you want to get to know him. You're what 16? She probably has the queen bee complex. If she's picking on you, tell her to stop. What's she going to do? Make fun of you more? at that point she'll either laugh at you or apologize. If she laughs at you, flip her the bird and tell her to go play in traffic. If she apologizes then everything's golden. The only way to survive in life is with a little back bone and the only way to get that back bone is by forcing it upon yourself. A little word of advice, when I'm nervous and trying to talk to girls, I take my time I focus on talking slowly and it makes me seem like I'm confident. The same can be used when confronting people. Slow and controlled leave your emotions out of it, those just get you in trouble. most people act mean because they think they can get away with it. before going to an adult talk to your friend about it, if she's a friend she'll understand and hopefully change. and try not to be so shy around the guys, being denied isn't as bad as you'd think. Not to mention us guys are pretty dense and don't catch on to hints very well. Straightforward is the way to go. Sorry for the lengthy unorganized post.

As long as you keep allowing this kind of behavior she will continue. You can say something like " wow with friends like you who needs enemies" just so that she can reflect on her own and see that you are on to her. Smile while you say it. Good Luck!!!

This person is not your friend. You do not owe her any courtesies. End your relationship with this person immediately and delete her e-mail, voice mail, etc. from your database. Since you state you don't have the skills to talk to her honestsly, right now don't bother. Don't answer any calls, or contacts. Don't make any either. Then take some time to learn how to develop your character, learn how to speak up for yourself, develop decent friendships and keep toxic people like this out of your life. You would not have any problem cleaning dirt off your shoes or clothing or seeking medical help if you caught a "bug". Do the same with this person.

Holy shit! This is how friends treat each other these days?! Don't be a doormat!!!

I agree. If it's too difficult for you to confront her and end the friendship, then allow it to drift apart. Avoid calls, don't answer emails etc. The main rule is, don't engage. THese people have a tendency to keep turning back up in your life though, so you need to stick to your decision and don't give in.