ANSWERS: 6
  • You don't have a choice. If you impose, she will find it overbearing. For whatever reason, she has eluded to the fact that she would like some space. You have to respect her wishes. She might feel a bit overwhelmed with the constant contact. Not knowing how long your relationship has been, it would be presumptious to give advice that doesn't fit the situation.
  • Truly you both need breathing room,visit with friends - If you smother each other there will be no room for growth - It's good for you to have space and her also - A time to miss each other so when you are together your relationship will blossom -
  • You need to learn to deal with your own neediness by yourself. This is NOT impossible. You will chase away every woman you meet if you don't do this. Women do NOT like clingy men. The feelings and thoughts that you have when she's not around, or isn't paying attention to you -- those are all bearable. You will not die. The trick is to learn to *experience* your anxiety just as it is. The constant effort to get rid of those feelings is what makes them turn into a vicious circle... a self-fulfilling prophecy.
  • I was recently going through the same thing except for the fact that I am a female. My boyfriend and just didn't seem to click after being great together for 5 months staight. What I realized is that we HAD to start doing things on our own again (ex-space) because all we were doing was being together. Not healthy. Then when we did take a day or two off or even a weekend. It was like the honeymoon phase kicked in again when we saw each other. Space is healthy...Makes you appreciate what you have! Hope I helped.... we took so time...did our own things...we are as strong as ever. Good Luck!
  • Go find another chic.
  • Freshen up you relationship. She may be getting bored. If you don't keep it new, your through!

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