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  • It is a spoken device to emphasize how strongly he likes your hair long. It's sort like saying if you cut your hair, I'll kill myself. No one really means it, it's just a saying.
  • Most hairdressers will tell you it is men that really love long hair on a woman, seemingly it is a sign of youth and vitality. We woman aren't so fussy in the folicle dept.
  • Men like long hair and you should have asked him if he was dating you for your hair. He would have said no, I just like long hair. He did not mean to hurt your feelings.
  • What you should know is that he is a jackass.
  • He dont want no bald head scallywag. Just kidding, he might be testing you to see how much influence he has over you. He might not really care if you cut your hair or not, but just wants to see if you won't do something that you want to do just because he tells you not to. Maybe not. Thats just an idea. Guys play games like that.So do girls.
  • You should think that a good and easy way to break up will always be to just cut your hair.
  • He probably was just playing serious. Also did you say you were going to shorten it or completely shave it? Because then he might not be attracted to that, and if he's the "new" guy you're dating, you shouldn't take it so hard. And also, did you say "What would you think if I cut my hair off?" Because if YOU asked then it's your own fault for asking a dumb question. But he was probably just jokingly serious.
  • Why are you taking that as an insult? I think that means he really likes your hair.
  • Control freak. I had a boyfriend that was like that. It started with telling me not to get my nose pierced. Before long, he was telling who I should or should not be friends with, that I smoked too much (he was also a smoker), and that people were calling me a slut because of the clothes I wore. After we broke up, he spread a bunch of false rumors about me. Watch out for further signs if you are going to continue seeing him.
  • If he is a "new guy" it is too soon for true love to the point where the relationship might survive stupid hair decisions. We all make them... If the relationship lasts, then it shouldn't matter. Once you get past the courting stage... If he still feels that way. Cut your hair and find yourself a nice guy!
  • Why ask someone else what you should think? You have a mind of your own. What you felt was hurt and you should have explained that to him on the spot so he could tell you if he was serious or not and you could move past it.
  • I had a guy say the same thing.. he ended up being abusive..
  • I had a similar thing happen to me when i first started dating my boyfriend. At the time I also felt upset because it made me think he was really fickle, as a woman it goes deeper than looks and you think what if i put weight on would he have an issue with that, or what if i was wearing something he doesn't like would he have an issue with that also. Just be "confident in yourself". The relationship is new so he is very attracted to your look but in time he will become attracted more to your personality too and as this develops along with your friendship he will become more accepting of change. I was blonde when i first got with my guy and he said he was not attracted to dark haired girls, (little did he know my hair was not naturally blonde until you know what happend), guess what now i am my natural hair colour and we are still together 15 years later so in time you will see that he will see you more than just a pretty face - stay confident, be assertive.

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