How can I get my wife to go down on me ? We have been married a long time & I am the one whos constantly horny,,,She will give me a hand job besides regular sex but thats it?

Sometimes you just have to face the facts that you picked a "Wrong 'un" and move on. If she meets your needs in other matters then supplement another who will perform these acts, if not, dump her and move on. Life is toomshort to put up with that sort of shit!

I am a RELATE Counsellor.

Basically, if you go down on her then she should return the favour. It's not one of my favourite activities to do as a woman; however, I do it and do a good job OCCASSIONALLY so it's more of a treat. haha

Find another woman.

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dude, the answer to tht is staring u in the face when u look in amirror

That is something only your wife can answer. If that is something that she doesnt enjoy doing or dislikes intensely, then it is what it is. But you need to express this to her, and see if you can somehow compromise on the issue. If it grosses her out, you are out of luck. Why not just enjoy the intimacy and closeness you two share, and I am sure you married her knowing this.

I hate this kind of selfishness. All those initiations before guys settle down and then WOOF...like smoke...its gone. Its always, I am tired, I am, not in the mood blah blah blah. One thing you have to understand, you wont remainh horny forever and your erection will not aleways be ther SO...might as well enjoy what you have got WHILE you have got it. Why should you suffer sexually if your mrs has had her fun in the beginning and doesnt bother anymore. I was in similar situation for 5years ONLY and I drew the line. Simple...if I dont get pussy at home ....I will get it somewhere else. I can respect my woman for a month...but no God forsaken 3 months in a row!!!! Its not worth the relationship.

Guess I read the question differently. My understanding wasn't that there was no sex at all, just not as often as grandpa would like, and in-between, he'd like a BJ but can't get one. My situation is somewhat similar, although it largely stems from her health issues, not plain ol' neglect.

Sometimes, I jokingly suggest we do a 68 - you do me, and I'll owe you one. It works best, if other nights I reverse it and suggest a 68 - I'll do you and you can catch up later. Doesn't always work, but when it does, it's a lot of fun.

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Go down on her, besides making a subtle lets say proposal it is always good for your relationship. So when you finish her orally she would start somehow appreciating oral pleasure. You could try convincing her to do so by also fingering her and kissing her all around her body, and then going down on her. That's all a mind game. Heres a site that just might help you Jacks blowjob persuasion.

Amen on the RELATE Counselor. Life is too short. You need to get with a more open-minded lady who will get freaky.

Just between you and me, you can tell you're not going to get any effort out of her when she already has back fat showing in the wedding dress. I don't know, maybe I have standards from the Marines.

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