by anoyonous on February 19th, 2009

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Is it possible to love someone and know at the same time it just couldn't work? I feel as though I loved him, but I am always mad at him or annoyed for stupid reasons when we're together. But I feel like he deserves someone who won't be like that.

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by Anon y mouse on February 19th, 2009
That's fear talking, not love. This 'knowing' that it can't work is nothing of the sort, simply a rationalisation of the fear of failure (or success), which in turn is often allowed to become a self fulfilling prophecy. Everyone has doubts in a relationship, everyone gets angry sometimes or annoyed for stupid reasons. Anyone who says that they don't is either lying or in need of therapy because of the stuff that they're repressing.

Learn to trust yourself and not to always listen to the voices of doubt and fear. That's what love is - going beyond ourselves - stepping outside of our comfort zones and allowing ourselves to be vulnerable with another for something other than simply self interest.
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- what a fantastic answer :O)) .. i love reading your stuff like this..and youve still not told me what the pseudonym is all about lol
  
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  by kitiara on February 19th, 2009
- Partly, I get a little tired of people's assumptions sometimes and so take a break. The rest I'll happily tell you privately. And thank you btw for the compliment.
  
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by andielovesshoes on February 19th, 2009
ohhh been there doing that right now :) you really gotta give it some time though, he may bug you now but its really just give it time, there could be something going on in your life that is making it seem like you dont like him but if you love him, really search your heart
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