We all know how small, insignificant things can spark arguements or fights in relationships. Any stories or lists of things that do just that? How did you deal with it?
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Brighid
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As we're both very assertive individuals, pretty much anything can "incite a mutiny," as she likes to put it. The most poignant example being an argument we had just yesterday about candy (she prefers taffy/fudge, I prefer rock candy...) that actually came to blows. For us, most arguments end in a playful bout of wrestling, a bit of good old fashioned seduction (when she'd rather make me succumb to her will than convince me through reasoned argument...), or a moment of "why the hell are we fighting?" So I'd say that we don't have to deal with it because we know that we love each other, and that although we might disagree on a wealth of subjects, our love still remains. In my previous relationships, however, I was not as lucky. We'd argue... and argue... and argue... over anything about the other that we found unsatisfactory. And there wasn't a pleasant conclusion because - heck, we didn't realize that its not the number of fights, but instead their conclusion that evinces the health of the relationship.
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