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Yes...all the signs point to a second date. BUT - it is too early to include her kid. Kids get very confused with these situations...better to wait until you have had a few dates and both of you are feeling very comfortable that this relationship has potential to grow into something very meaningful. Discuss this with the lady...and explain your point of view.... This is putting the best interest of the child first....your lady will appreciate that.
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It is honorable to want to invite the youngster, but I would suggest holding off on that one for now. I would say you can mention the possibility, but it is probably better to wait until you know if there is a chance of a future for you and the lady first. I'm sure she does not want to risk her child becoming attached to you and then discover that you and her are not right for each other. Then it would become a hardsship on the child. Not knowing the specifics of the child's father (divorce, deceased, abandoned them, etc), it may be hard on the child to understand that there is this wonderful guy who likes my mom and I like him, but what happened, why are they not seeing each other any more. so, I guess I'm trying to say wait a few more dates before risking hurting the child's feelings if things do not work out for you and the mother.
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