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Everything you just said here- tell him. If you two are gonna be a couple you both are going to need to have good communication.
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Then don't ruin it. The problem with we women is that we want a rose garden but we don't want to plant any seeds, water them, and let time to the rest. We want the end without doing the work. By the way, it's "ever since I first saw him." If you are already hanging out, keep hanging out. Remember to act like a lady, not a homie or a buddy and that means talking like a lady and not a sailor (if that's your thing). If you want to be his GF, then you cannot become his buddy. Take it easy, don't be in a rush, listen, listen, listen, to him talk and if you have anything to contribute, then do so. If you have anything in common, (really in common, not something you know he likes and you recently got into it) then share that. Also, don't let him think he's the only thing you are interested in. Have stuff to do that doesn't include him. Men hate knowing women are readily available anytime of day. The thrill is gone when that happens.
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