Well the best thing is to stay put for some more time . Well I did like a guy and he and I were friends , but he was into some other girls . But I still remained friends with him , I did give him a hint ,stayed with him emotionally and waited for almost a year . Well I know it is long gap but we've started talking things now and have kept my fingers crossed since then . I hope you are getting what I am trying to say . If possible try giving him a hint :)

Saying this from a guys point of veiw.Tell him,just tell him and go from there.

TELL HIM!!! Cause that "unstable girls" isnt giving him all she can--where as you seem like you really want him and would possibly do more than this broad...GO FOR IT...Once you tell him, you will feel ten billion times much better than worrying about weather you should tell him or not. Just look at it this way, you only have one chance to live your life, so make the most of it...I told the guy I still am in love with of 3 years now how much i love him, and I also told him id do anything for him too..I was in your shoes at one point in my life...But BELIEVE ME..It will all work out fine. Just try to interest him more into you, and do as much as you can with him..And sooner or later he will see how much you admire him and want him too..But I strongly think you should just tell him--Best of luck :)

Tell him..what's the worse that can happen?:)

Spread rumors about her so that she develops an eating disorder and he kills her-turn him in. Then come to me?

Tell him the truth and let him do what he needs to do. Be a friend no matter what.

Leave the guy alone unless and until he splits up with his present girlfriend.

could you really feel good about dating someone if you have a hand in ending his current relationship even if that relationshp is flawed? be his friend and wait till he is single before expressing any interest

Don't disrupt him and and current girlfriend. Since it is an unstable relationship, they'll probably end up splitting anyway... Just be there for him when he needs you, and when you're time comes... (when they break up)... tell him how you feel about him.

Keep on being friends, but don't close the door to other relationships. If the time comes when your friend is available and you are too and you both feel the same way, it will work out.

Safest bet is to leave them to break up on their own. If she's as bad as you say, and he's as great as you imply, it won't be long. If it is a long time, perhaps you were wrong about at least one of those two things. Or, if you can live with yourself, put your hand down the front of his pants and say "This is mine now!" Almost guaranteed to work. (almost)

be there for him, and let him know what you just told us.

Has he ever indicated any romantic interest in you? If you make a move and he seems amenable, you may be a stop-gap romance..a rebound..I'm sure that's not what you want. It would be very tricky. If you have been a confidant and suffered through his various relationships, he may view you as a "sister". Good luck..be careful..go slow! Happy Wednesday FI! :)

You cant do much i am afriad its up to him to descide that he has had enough and has the sense to break up with her, just be his friend You dont want to interfair with the relationship and end up being called a whore for breaking it up as this g/f sounds unstable

Just wait till the g/f is dumped and forgotten about and make you move. Gudluck!!!

Never mind the girlfriend. Go ahead, sleep with him if that's what you really want

I'm gonna go ahead on put on my devil horns for this question, hope you don't mind. If you want to undermine the other girl, here's how you do it. Whenever he complains about her, you defend her. Not so much as to change his mind, just enough that he wants to keep griping. Do this long enough, and he'll convince himself that he needs out of the relationship. Guy: My girlfriend is so crazy, last night, she locked me out of my house! Girl:Really, what happened? Guy:(insert dramatic story) Girl:Well, I'm sure she's not all bad... Guy:Oh yeah? Let me tell you about what she did last weekend? --And so on... --------------------------------------------------- Now, to take care of the angel on your other shoulder: If the girl is really treating him like shit, he should break up with her. As a good friend, you're watching out for him, actually. And, you're not telling him to break up with her, you're helping him see that she's treating him like shit. It's how a shrink convinces a patient to do what they already want to do... (DO NOT EVER TELL HIM TO BREAK UP!!! It will make him defend her. Plus, you'll get the blame if things get shitty.) So, now that we got rid of that angelic punk, you know what to do... (puts away devil horns)

Nothing if he doesn't want to leave his girlfriend.

honey every man talks about his g/f like that to another girl, go ahead and sleep with him youll be the next girl he calls "crazy " or "unstable" to another girl eventually lol youll learn ive been there where a guy talks about his girl like that and eventually met her some how and she was like the sweetest girl ever and HE was the asshole so be careful what guys will say =)

TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL, WAIT A DAY OR SO THEN ASK HIM HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU. IF YOU BOTH ARE HAPPY TOGETHER, THEN GO SOMEWHERE AND GIVE HIM ALL YOUR LOVE ALONE TOGETHER. AFTERWARDS TELL HIM ITS EITHER HER OR ME, BUT NOT BOTH OF US.

I'd stay out of it and let nature take its course. The LAST thing you need is to be someone's side dish.

By all means, let him know! The next time he starts telling you about his unstable girlfriend, tell him you care. Tell him life can be good, let him know you want to be a bigger part of his life what was once just friendship could be so much more. Go for it!!!!!!!