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I think it depends more on the person's mental age. I work with many people older than myself, but I only get along with half of them because half of them act like adults. The other half like to gossip, cause trouble, and act really juvenile sometimes. Same goes with people my age and younger. I have met some really mature 15 year olds that have it more together than many 30 year olds I know.
I get along with people of all ages but I think that is because I'm the middle child in my family.
I get along with people that are older then me! I don't really relate to people my age and younger, they are still to tied up in stupid issues!
Younger people tend to be drawn to me and want my attention and company, for whatever reason.
Older people like that I'm outspoken and will say what's on my mind in tune to a heartbeat. I guess it depends, but I'd prefer the older group. This way I can learn something and not have to answer the never-ending "WHY" question that the younger crowd seems to live by.
In general, I prefer to be around people who are older than me because I get along better with them. I find that I have more in common with them and that we think more alike.
It depends upon the person. I have friends across the board...from the 14 yr old boy from across the street, to the 86 year old man with one leg and dancing fingers on his keyboard on a daily basis...my partner keeps his computer up and running and we take him home cooked goodies.
With the exceptions of my younger sister, three close friends from HS who are my age, and the two kids I take care of (I'm a nanny), I generally do better with people older than me; not sure why it is, but it has always seemed to be the case for me.
I get along with younger people. I have friends of all ages, but I have more in common wih younger people.
I get along better with people who are older than me. though im 19 years old, many people my age dont understand me and i find them to be extremely immature.
i like talking to older people because they know what they are talking about and they know when to be serious and when to joke.
I get along better with people who are both older and younger than I am than I do with people who are actually my own age.
usually older because they're more mature. though there are some acceptions for those child like people...
EDIT: and I suppose I'm good with small children. once they stop being cute and getting oppinions and telling me i'm stupid and they no longer appreciate me...
we no longer talk...
Older. Much wisdom to be gained there. As my grandfather said, "I didn't get old by being stupid".
Mostly I get along with people who are older, but I do get along with some people who are younger. Older or younger I think it all depends on their level of maturity.
Both, I have people I consider friends at my church that range from their mid 50's all the way down to the middle school students.
Generally i get on well with all people, but i do have a number of older friends if you want to read anything into that.
I get along best with either the very young, or the very old.
Not so well with anyone in between, but if you're under five, or over eighty, I'm almost garunteed to like you.
both. i can get along with just about any-one.
I seem to get along better with people older than I.
It doesnt matter to me ..a friend is better than no friends.
I get along well with both people who are older as well as people who are younger. Not bad for a scorpio. lol
Older I'm not to sure why but they seem to know all the right answers :)
I'm smarter than most people and i like to hang out with older people who will understand what I'm talking about.
I generally get along with people older.
When I was 10 I would join in conversations with my mum & her friends rather than hang out with all their kids lol.
Even these days I'm still like that but since I'm older it doesn't seem so 'odd' anymore (people always used to comment that I never did anything with other kids & thought it was weird).
I think I get along with almost everybody..any age!
younger :D
Generally younger people actually. I'm not sure why though. I just don't really relate to people my age.
older:) and men:) i get along better with my friends husbands then them lol
Younger people. Older people tend to complain too much.
Age doesn't seem to matter because I get along with them all.
older because then they will be more mature than a little bratty kid.
I'm not really a get along person. Only on the net am I a person that likes to get along with everybody. I'm really quiet in person and still harmless.
I find i get along with people who are older. Mst of the time, because they are most mature and gone threw more in there life. Its also nice because you could learn alot from older people, because some of them could of gone threw the same things your going threw and then they could teach you to enter a postive drection by tellin them there faults and then they could make you not go threw the same mistakes they did.
i kinda get along w/ everyone. cuz i am a teenager but sometimes i still act like a little child so it all depends.
Age does not matter in friendships.
I am good friends with people younger than me ie (11 with me being 16) and much older than me (me being 16 and them 40+), and all that is needed for this is an acceptance that different aged people will want to do different things, and a good sense of fun!
Both.
I get along with most people in general. Depending on the moood i'm in, I like to be around people my age when I just feel like hanging out. Once in a while an interesting conversation will arise but seldom are to my interest. In that aspect I prefer to talk to older people, when I want to get an insight on life. I really like to listen to others experiences. But it's true that some older people tend to be immature and gossip, I can't stand that. Or when older people, and I especially notice this in women, think that they are so above you because they're older. But thats only a few ignorant people.
I'm good with everybody. But I'd say younger. I'm single no kids....and my lifestyle more closely resembles a younger person's. I have few obligations to others, my time is my own...so I think that'd translate to someone who has more in common with younger folks. (I'm old, of course)
I have to say i get on with people of all ages! its my job too!
all ages are easy for me. 8 years older is ideal i think.
As a kid, one of my best friends was an 83 year old Woman. She told me about her life and I found it amazing and incredible.
I still remember the story of how a bee was on her apple so she thought she'd be smart and bit it! The bee stung her inside her mouth and got away.
Mary was the coolest! My friendships have continued to be with older folks. I think they have a lot to offer...if we just listen to them.
For the most part people that are older than me. I have not been able to relate with people younger than me..and alot of times people my own age. This may be because of the responsibilities placed on me in a younger age
both i know how to make a balance between the two
I get along better with people thats older than me but I also love hanging with some of my younger friends
-Kelly
younger
i love hanging out with them. They are so much fun and innocent.
You can play ball with them, and have fun, and let them have fun to without feeling like an idiot
so definitly younger kids.
I tend to get along with people older than me. Immaturity is rather annoying to me.
Older because I like to listen to their stories. I work with older people and enjoy their company better than my age or younger.
Older because I like to listen to their stories. I work with older people and enjoy their company better than my age or younger.
most of my friends are older.. i'm 25 and one of my best friends is 40. go figure.
both actually.. i have friends who are both older and younger than me.. i enjoy each of them for different reasons..
no people my age that how i hung out with
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i couldn't agree more with you.
I'd just like to add here, that getting along has got more to do with emotional compatibility between the two individuals rather than just the mental maturity.
by MissLost on June 24th, 2008
My friends who live in brazil recently they broke up their relations, i have to something to say for them.
"I'm helpless nothing to do for you. Anything what i do when nothing left even relations. sad....
by chhuny on February 5th, 2009