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by anonymous on January 22nd, 2009

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What can i do after this guy that I've been talking to for the past 4 months tells me that he was also talking to this girl and they were only talking for almost 2 months and that they are now together for almost 2 weeks? Should i wait for him?or leave?

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  • by The Chief on January 22nd, 2009

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    OK, you say you've been "...talking to for the past 4 months..."

    This does NOT imply a relationship on the order of dating. Unless you were assuming that was the case, in which case you have just learned a valuable lesson about "assuming". (Assuming usually relies on faulty presumptions and a lack of personal involvement. In the Navy, I learned early on that when you "assume" something, you make an "*ss" out of "u" and "me".)

    If you wish for something more, YOU need to make this known to him. If not, then don't expect things to go the way you would like.

    Talking to someone is not dating. But if he's actually in a dating relationship with this other girl, I'd say you missed your chance. Don't wait around...move on with your life and don't interfere with their relationship.

    If the opportunity should arise later, perhaps the two of you can get together. Until then....

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  • by gtravels loves her life penguin on January 22nd, 2009

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    Wait for what? He's with another girl. Why would you want him anyway? Aim higher.

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