Once your hearts been shattered, how do you peice it back together?
by 
Inspector Javert
ANSWERS: 7
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very carefully- with the glue of love. :)
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Do something to get your mind off it(what ever it is)...i know the feeling
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with time!
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Time and patience. When I had my heart broken, I spent days listening to sad music (you know there's plenty out there) and just surrounding myself with pain. Then, I listed to Gloria Gaynor's I Will Survive over and over again until I drove my roommates nuts! :-D Get together with your friends, talk about it if you need to and give yourself some time to mourn your relationship and then move on. No two people get over a broken heart the same, so be gentle with yourself and do what feels right at your own pace.
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I honestly don't know what I would do, my heart has never really been shattered before. But I imagine I would find my next closest friend, and hang around them for weeks on end, moping, drinking, talking, and making sure I'm too busy and/or too drunk to kill myself.
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Putting your hearts pieces back together is a proccess. you cannot just decide to wake up one day and say, hey im not gonna be hurt today...you have to go through the proccess of letting things out, letting go and gaining your self again. you may take days asking yourself several "why" questions. it is after you figure things out and realise that things happen for a reason that you can put everything back together.
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Don't try; let it take on a new shape as time and grace put it togehter in a more beautiful and loving arrangement. In the meantime, focus on things that bring out the best in you. enjoy the people in your life. Write about your pain, but also about your dreams. take the love you have in your heart and start spreading it around to lonely people. And a good comedy wouldn't hurt. Whatever you do, don't sit in your dark room listening to sad songs for more than one day.
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