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by nevets - badgicide on January 20th, 2007
No, how could I trust someone who would cheat on someone else?
by 1Simmy on January 20th, 2007
HELL NO!
Why the hell would anyone do that!?
There are so many great single people out there.
How would you feel if that someone was you being cheated on instead. And how do you know a few years down the line that person wouldn't do the same to you.
It all comes down to trust as far as I'm concerned.
by Andy Is Wicked Married to Penal Colony on January 20th, 2007
Noooooo way. Been on the flip side of this and it is no fun to find out your spouse is cheating. I simply wouldn't want to put anyone through what I went through.
by mystified on March 3rd, 2007
To cut to the chase, so to speak, for several years I was "the other man." No point in going into the reasons I fell in with a married woman. The point is, it was wrong! Period. It ended 10 years ago. I've been alone ever since. No matter how many showers I take, I just can't feel clean any more. My guilt from this is so strong, even 10 years later, that I can no longer date anyone. I doubt I will ever forgive myself, and cannot even begin to tell about the insanity I've gone through over this. There is NO justification...no excuse...no reason that can make any of it right. It is wrong. There is no "gray" area. Absolutely NO GOOD can EVER come from dating a married person, even if it starts "innocently" (a married person, man or woman, has no business, for instance, meeting a single person for social functions -- movies, dinner, etc.). If you do, you're setting the stage for disaster. Of course, if you have no conscience....well, I won't even go into that. Unfortunately, I do have one. If there were a way to undo it, I would, but there's not. If anyone else is contemplating it, I beg you to stop a bit and think it through first. Don't go through what I've been through.
by Redhawk on January 20th, 2007
NO! I wouldn't even date someone who was involved with another person. If I was single, and you wanted to date me...YOU better be single too...BAD KARMA to mess with someone already involved or married to another person! eeeesssh no, no no!
by timetogetserious on January 20th, 2007
Yeah, i would date my wife, lol.
Seriously though, no, too many complications for starters.
by Blar on January 20th, 2007
If they were married but in an open marriage, their spouse knew about it and was completely okay with it, I would still stay clear. The fact of the matter is I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who I knew was more devoted to somebody else (romantically) than me. There's too much potential for it to get really complicated and messy...
by Anonymous on January 20th, 2007
No, I couldn't trust the man or the relationship, being the other woman ends in pain most times, from what I read.
by Stupid Motheryiffer on October 24th, 2007
no
by TheAnswerer on January 20th, 2007
No, I would be scared. If the husband saw me with his woman, I'm sure I would get hurt.
by veninha on January 20th, 2007
It depends on whether it's just a fling or you actually want something serious. If it's the latter I'd say no, but if the former, maybe?
by Tantric on January 20th, 2007
I will not date a woman if she is married.
by WussiePussieHasLetHimselfOutOfTheBag on January 20th, 2007
It depends on whether it was ok with their spouse or not.
by Nikkeh on January 20th, 2007
no, because 9 times out of 10 they would be going home and sleeping with/next to their spouse. its not a calming feeling.
by munchkin_kids_downunder on January 20th, 2007
no not ever. having been the one cheated on by my husband who i completely loved & was committed to. i would not let anyone esle have the same hurt and devastation i felt for a little selfishness and fun. i have to live with the hurt everyday, why do that to someone esle!
by SonicSand on January 20th, 2007
No, I would not personally knowingly date a married man. Too much drama and stress.
by Brian I on July 9th, 2007
My wife and I make a point of having regular dates with each other, so yes I have.
by Gracin the Strange on March 2nd, 2007
As often as possible, My husband likes to take me out on dates but I always ask him if his wife is OK with it and wink at him. As for other men NOT married to me, I am just not interested in dating them.
by FreshApples on January 20th, 2007
never
by Universe Of Life on January 20th, 2007
If she was separated and it was
prior to divorce being finalised?
Maybe with some thought,yes
by Anonymous on April 5th, 2007
Until a couple of weeks ago, I'd've said absolutely no way, not no how, are you on crack? I've also steered clear many times before because they've reeked of catastrophes waiting to happen. But now that I'm involved with a married woman, my thinking has changed a bit. You connect with people who you connect with.
If you go this road you have to accept whatever parameters are germane to the situation. You have to think in terms of enhancement rather than possession. You have to find joy in the moment. And you have to learn quickly not to take anything for granted.
Perhaps I'm selfish to want the company of a fun, loving women (and some pretty phenomenal sex) when a third party could be hurt. But I also have no illusions that this something that it's not -- I will enjoy the gift that has been bestowed upon me and move on when it has run its course.
by Brian I on March 10th, 2007
I've been having dates with a married woman for almost 40 years and I love all of them. The fact that I'm married to her is neither here nor there.
by Bluerose on March 10th, 2007
I'll try anything once.
He was separated. We were together for five years when he told me that he had been seeing her - He went back to her.
So married and recently separated men were off the menu from then on.
by Stronghart on March 2nd, 2007
Married women are a good bet.
It is well known that married women are trustworthy as they have a lot to lose if exposed. In the meantime, they are appreciative, not much trouble, and they always go home after.
by Valparaiso on January 24th, 2007
No way
I'm not going to contribute to someone's adultry.
by mommaskye on January 24th, 2007
absolutly not no way no how
by kristenamy on July 16th, 2007
Heck no! If he wants to see you while he is married, chances are he will want to see somone else while he is with you...
by Mrs.mezzo is a Wagnerian soprano on July 9th, 2007
No. That's detestable in my book.
by Icebox April on March 26th, 2007
If someone is interested in me and I in them, then it's not my problem whether or not they're married, it's their spouse's. I'll date whoever I want, regardless of who they're involved with.
Having said that,
I would still really avoid the hell out of it. I get jealous easily and I don't like to wonder about loyalty. It's just too complicated and will cause shit for everyone involved. I'm sure I could find a great single person just as easily.
by centrator on March 10th, 2007
Married women are just like guys. They like, the need variety, and anyone who thinks that being with one person for a lifetime is all that they need is very different than me.
by Anonymous on March 10th, 2007
No. There are just too many available single women in the world to distract me from the married ones.
by Firebrand on March 3rd, 2007
No never .
If they will cheat on their present partner they will cheat on you.
by melbee on March 3rd, 2007
I just came back from a long awaited date with a married man.... my husband
by singwell-is off researching a lot on March 3rd, 2007
only my husband...seriously, NO. look at Britney and Fed-ex. that is a typical relationship breakdown due to lack of trust. she met him while he was married (with a baby on the way) and then expected him to stay faithful to her. No wonder she is freaking now. If a person will do that to one partner, they will do it to you.
by dotnotdottie on January 20th, 2007
no. if a person is married they have taken a vow at the very least legally and most likely religiously, that should be upheld.
and if you can take someone away from someone else that person can just as easily be taken away from you.
by Shatzee coming back? on August 4th, 2009
I will only go out on dates with my husband :)
by PeteO1970 on August 4th, 2009
No- And I've never technically "dated" anyone really, wherein dating would be asking out someone, taking that leap of faith
by Ocean Flower on August 3rd, 2009
Absolutely never!
by Guy Gray on August 3rd, 2009
I did, but never thought to ask if she was. Went to her place and saw the wedding pics. She confessed and I left. So i guess the answer is "Not knowingly"
by Naamah on August 3rd, 2009
No, there is nothing but trouble in the future when you date someone thats married.
by 007 plus Maverick equals Pure Awesome on July 21st, 2008
I would not date a married woman, no. However, I would sleep with a married woman, and I have. I don't believe in the whole marriage thing anyway.
by jbrenda on July 6th, 2008
i absolutely would not date a married man. I am a married woman. I am not a selfish, desperate woman that cannot control her hormones or will disrespect her wedding vows. I would like things much better if we lived in a fake happy land where bullcrap didnt happen and money grew on trees, and everyone was tactfully honest, but that will never happen ever!
My suggestion to any women who wants to date a married man, go jam a large piece of wood up your v****, or stick your face in a car door and slam it repeatedly, since if the married spouse catches you they may want to beat your a$$ anyways. Save yourself the embarassment and beat your a$$ yourself.
by lioness on April 30th, 2008
Almost everyone here says they wouldn't but I'm pretty sure most of you have. It's not right but sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with...if we all did what we say or what's right then we would be living in a perfect world but we're not. Situations arise where we don't always do what's right but it doesn't make us a bad person for it...it just makes us human.
by Galeanda on January 19th, 2008
Only if he were married to me:-)
by Cowboy-Matter of Fact on October 17th, 2007
Yes, damn straight. I have asked my wife out on a date severl times, and she is married.
by Chaysgirl24 on September 20th, 2007
Not on purpose...people lie though! I hate home wreckers!
by Highlander is semi-retired from AB on September 1st, 2007
If I was single; many people are married but waiting on a divorce or otherwise separated. They are still technically married, but not in their hearts where it counts.
by Cowboy-Matter of Fact on September 1st, 2007
Yes, I have asked my wife out on a date before. She loved it.
by Anonymous on September 1st, 2007
What about if the women was seperated?
by RosieGHM Jetpacker on July 14th, 2007
Not knowingly. But some men are pretty sneaky...once had a date with someone who represented himself as single..during the course of the date he tripped himself up..I was furious. That was the end of that. Jerk.
whats the best way to get back at a cheating exboyfriend?
by helpplease8 on January 24th, 2012
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I cheated on my girlfriend and admitted it to her, now what do I do?
by SOAnarchy on January 13th, 2012
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Will you throw my clothes away if I said I didn't care?
by eaq5003 on January 27th, 2012
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I am feeling really insecure about my current relationship.
by amandafohio on January 31st, 2012
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how do I tell if she is cheating on me? I'm in a different city than her and I know no one there.
by kyzersezso on January 22nd, 2012
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Other people have answered almost exactly the same way below. If you rolled them all into one answer, it would probabaly be 80-90 points..:-D..
by Old School on March 2nd, 2007
It is well known that married women are easily trusted as they have a lot to lose if exposed. In the meantime, they are appreciative, not much trouble, and they always go home after.
by Stronghart on March 2nd, 2007
Trust? what does trust have to do with it. It's about lust, not trust.
by George Dufferin on March 19th, 2007
right on buster!!
by LuvLiving on August 2nd, 2008