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by Munyi89 on January 19th, 2007

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My girlfriend thinks she's a little chubby and doesnt really like her body, but i LOVE it and she's not fat at ALL. So, what can i do to make her like her body a little more? And no, she's not anorexic.

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  • by jenniferx on January 19th, 2007

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    that is something she's going to have realize on her own. it doesn't matter how many times you tell her she's perfect, beautiful and sexy etc. she has to come to that conclusion on her own. i think i'm fat until i get on the scales. i'm 5ft 6in and weigh 118, so no i'm not fat. but you can't tell me that i just have to realize it on my own. does she diet a lot or excercise more than normal? not saying that she's anorexic, i was just asking. just continue to assure her she's beautiful and she'll come around. she has to do it herself though.

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  • by janacide on January 19th, 2007

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    Just always keep telling her what a beautiful body she has,while you are having sex,tell her how much you love her soft skin and how great she looks,tell her how good she makes you feel and that she is perfect in your eyes.After making love,tell her how pleased you were at the site of her naked body and how happy you are to be with someone so beautiful.Trust me,it wont take long before she is completly comfortable being naked with you.

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  • by sacredheart on January 19th, 2007

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    tell her baby, you are not chubby as you think and infact i love it! and continue showing her that you really don't mind what she has in mind, it will give her self - confidence.

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  • by Sin Binned on July 20th, 2007

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    Tell her what your favourite part of her body is and tell her why, it will take a while but eventually she will gain enough self confidence and let go of the idea of thinking she is a little chubby. Never answer the question asked by so many millions "Honey, am I fat" no matter what you answer you will always be in sh#t!!!!

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  • by Wendora on January 19th, 2007

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    No matter what you say or do, she will still feel that she is fat. It's not your doing, it's society and all the pressure they put on people to be "ideal".

    Just let her express herself but just the fact that you are with her should be proof enough that you value what is on the inside of her which is more important than the packaging.

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  • by Gen.ButtNaked on February 24th, 2010

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    If she does not like it and has made up her mind about, there is little to nothing you can do, to make her feel differently, it is what it is!!!!!!!!!!

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  • by Anonymous on February 4th, 2010

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    Begin by respecting how she feels about the matter. That will allow her to feel comfortable in changing her mind. The natural reaction to someone trying to "MAKE her like her body" (emphasis added) is for her to hold more tightly to her negative opinion.

    You can help by being careful that your words and actions are consistent, both with each other and over time. If she sees that what you say about her body is always the same as how you treat her body, then these words will become facts that influence how she feels about herself.

    However, this is a internal process; it happens over time within her heart and mind. There are no shortcuts and it is not something that anyone can make happen. This is a good example of the difference between influence and control.

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