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Tell her! She is going to have a broken heart because of him sooner or later and the longer they are together, the more it will hurt. Your her best friend so I'm sure you already knew what you need to do.
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You kids -- and childish adults -- who think that the world will come to an end with "flirting and talking to" members of the opposite sex -- you really need to grow up. Seriously. We ALL flirt, and there's nothing wrong with it at all. In fact, it's a valuable social skill for anyone to have. If it's going to break this girl's heart that her guy was "flirting and talking to other girls", then it's best confronted sooner rather than later, I suppose. But it's stupid to think that something so innocent -- yes, innocent! -- and trivial should be the basis for ending a relationship. But in any case I would advise you NOT to tell her. If she's got any kind of maturity to her AT ALL she will know that this is NOTHING. She's more likely to drop you as a friend for (apparently) trying to stir up trouble. And if your friend hasn't herself "flirted and talked with other guys" while she's out of the country, then shame on her for putting blinders on and choosing not to grow up.
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