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  • Ok, first, I can't believe someone downrated this question. Second, you need to see someone to help you through the issues you have from when you were 15/16. These things don't just go away, these things nestle into your subconscious and are the driving force behind a lot of your decisions and unexplainable emotions. Please see someone, and don't subject yourself to a partner who will cheat on you, it couldn't be good for your mental state. In fact, I know it is negative for your mental state. You need to look after yourself first - I can see just by this question that what happened when you were 15/16 has effected your sense of self-worth and self-confidence, in that you have stayed with a guy who has repeatedly cheated on you but you believe you love him. You deserve better, you need to have better.
  • You are way overdue for some one on one personal counseling. Find someone to help you as soon as you can.
  • First, i am very sorry that happened to you. I believe with counseling it will get easier. It is understandable you feel the way you do. In order to move on you must forgive but you will never forget. Just make sure that you hold your standards high and that he treats you with respect. Trust will take time. make him earn it. I believe things happen for a reason. Maybe you were meant to help other girls who have been in the same situation. God bless you!

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