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shrinkess
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I remember that that person was upset before I was ever in the room. I don't take it personal unless I know I did something to upset them .In that case I try to defuse or come to an understanding and solution that benefits all and solves the problem and feelings hurt in a logical way and timely fashion.All the while trying not to argue.
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With calmness and reason. If that fails, I try ignoring the person. If THAT fails, I may just beat the everlovin' dog doo outta them! Heh!
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When facing someone with anger issues, it is best to remain calm and confident. showing anger in return would be like adding fuel to the flame. Most who express such an aggressiveness are hoping for the same in return. Agree with the angry party to defuse the situation and wait until things have calmed down before calmly confronting this person as just how wrong they were and demand an apology.
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No, it isn't worth wasting my time.
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Are you talking to me?
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when you get angry find something thats always made you laugh ive tried it b4 and it works but if your like me after that youll try to act like your still angry but your just hurting the people around u
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I listen quietly to their grievance and may reply back quietly. I can agree or disagree, say I'm sorry, leave, whatever the situation merits. It doesn't make me angry in return usually. I tend to just get very quiet and peaceful and do what I can if there is something up to me and then I move on.
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I don't remember anyone ever being angry with me. It's usually me...
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It depends if I care. If I don't then I tell them to f off
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Laugh. Make your laughter stronger than their anger.
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same way I deal with rocks and anything else aimed at me... put some walls between me and the thrower.
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Depends. Once I get over the original emotion, separate myself initially, and go back later after the lava has cooled...if I feel there's a "friendship" worth salvaging.
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it depends on who it's coming from.if i care about the person i try to work it out, if i don't care about the person i just ignore them.
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Was meant to be in comment section: Sorry, a very tricky situation. She had years to build up negative feelings towards you and probably people around her who didn't do much to counter those growing emotions. ___________________________________ Trying to give her the feeling that you really are sorry and that from now on you are there for her is probably the best thing you can do for now. ___________________________________ Like you say, given enough time and space, she is likely to turn round eventually. I have a father who wasn’t a father. At first I was angry (also brain washed to be angry), but I do now understand his background. He never received the love he needed when he was a child and in a way has remained a child. ______________________________ At the same time, in my case I have given him countless opportunities to forget the past, only to be continually confronted with the negative aspects of his personality. Where do I draw the line? When is enough, enough? ______________________________ Try to do it better than in the past and I am sure things will turn out positively for both of you. All the best...regards
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Dive behind someone else! ;-)
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I deal with anger directed at my person in one of two ways. Indifference, or violent hostility.
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Replay with Back firing!
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I try to let it toll off my back like a duck
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