If you had records of telephone calls between your marriage partner and someone you thought they were having an affair with, would you go to that other person's home to confront them and show your "evidence" to their spouse?
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Possibly. I would want to be sure that there was no possibility that the conversations were due to anything else first. You could accidentally ruin a perfectly good marriage like that. First, if I was a woman in that situation, I would pay attention to my husbands behavior. Observe, a wife should know her husband well enough to detect behavioral changes. It would be sad for me to be in a relationship where I felt I could not expect to get the truth from my spouse about such a matter. Or that I might not possibly detect such a betrayal.
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What for??? The problem is between you and your partner. And what if you are wrong???? A phone call is "evidence" of nothing more than a phone call.
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No. You may consider making copies and confronting your partner, but not the others'. ESPECIALLY if you're not sure ("you THOUGHT they were having an affair with"). Ruining others' marriages, whether they actually did yours or not, is NOT something you wish to be known for.
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NO, I'd go to my partner and straighten it out with him! I can't understand why someone goes to the "other woman" or man to confront them ... deal with your spouse. That's the person who owes you an explanation!
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Probably not. Me and my wife would have commitment to each other, not the person they are possibly cheating on me with. They wouldn't concern me.
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Evidence of what? Phone conversations? You don't even know what they were talking about, there are such thigns as friends. Frankly if I suspected my partner of cheating I would confront my partner about it, they are the ones who made promises to me not anyone else.
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It depends on what you hope to accomplish. If you wish to embarrass yourself, then confront away with your baseless evidence. Phone calls mean they talked on the phone. Now if each of those calls was followed by your husband being gone overnight, then you may wish to consult with a private investigator to more fully accummulate evidence - if you wish to pursue a divorce from this phone-cheater. Think about what you are doing long and hard before you go confronting the "other woman". Sorry - I answered the question before I clicked on the link - my bad. My answer stands though.
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No, the only one you have a right to confront is your spouse.
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Going to the other man or woman is pointless. It's revenge which accomplished nothing. Your issue is with your partner. She or he is the one who made the promise to you. She or he is the one you need to address and decide what to do about it with.
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First have a heart to heart with your spouse and find out where they stand in your relationship.I think it is important to know what time of day the phone calls were made, how long the phone calls lasted, and if I or my mate were away from home when the calls were made. Then determine if your mate is being persued or were they the persuer. If my mate were the one being persued I would want to talk to the other couple to ensure the called did not continue. Lastly,informing the other couple does not necessarly mean an end to the other marriage, but might infact be the thing which sends them to a marriage counslor to SAVE their marriage.
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No.I wouldn't drag someone else down with me on an assumption.
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I do some work in the surveillance arena and I can tell you that unless you have explicit permission of both parties to record their conversations, you're breaking the law. I believe it's executive order 12333 but I can't be certain. You're treading on thin ice if you do this and you'd be insane to use it as "evidence" since the only evidence it would be against is you. Now, that being out of the way, what would you gain from hurting that other persons spouse?
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I'd deal with my spouse only...unless the other person was a "friend" of mine
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