I may be a failure at everything in my life but I want to change and make my family whole again. can I do it and what should i do? I'm a girl who cheated on her love by yes, trying to earn some extra cash... I know I'm a whore, bitch and dumb fuck, need h
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It can be done, but it isn't going to be easy. If you haven't already told him, at some point you're going to have to. It's better if he finds out from you rather than from someone else. Just make sure that it isn't during a fight or on what should have been a special day. That doesn't go over well at all. I'm not sure what drove you to do what you did, but that'll make a huge difference. If you needed the money for bills, there's a far greater chance he'll forgive you as opposed to your doing it for something stupid like clothes. You're going to have to face the music. Fess up and be compleatly honest with him. Leave out the gruesome details as best you can and focus more on the reasoning behind it and emphasize that you didn't want to hurt him, that you love him dearly, and that you will NEVER do anything like it again. If he gives you another chance, expect to be watched all the time. It'll take a long time to rebuild the trust you threw away and you're going to have to accept that it might not even be possible.
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you are not a failure because you made some mistakes. we all make them. tell him, then tell your family. if you are sorry, which you sound like you are, apologize sincerely then seek some therapy.
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