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Generally, no, but there are cases where stepfathers have been ordered to pay child support. If you've been a significant part of the child's life, go for custody.
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I’ve been a Father’s Rights Advocate for 20 years.
Many think the courts are rigged against dads, but in reality, it is more about attorneys unwilling or lacking the knowledge to truly fight for the father's rights. This is why it is important to learn how to interview and hire the right attorney. It is also important to do as much as possible on your own and not pay the attorney to do it.
Part of the problem with getting your rights knowing what to do to prove your case, and how to remind the judge of their responsibilities. Let me start with the judge.
Always take people with you to court who are not there to testify. Make sure they are sitting where the judge can see them, each equipped with a tablet and pen to take notes. It’s best to use a Court Watch Form designed for this purpose. I have one in the manual at Dads House.
If the judge is not doing his job, using the info from this form, you can, appeal, and/or get the judge sanctioned and removed from the case. You file a complaint with the State Supreme Court at your state capital.
Start keeping a daily journal of all your activities. The most common way to prevent a father from getting his rights through the courts is a false allegation, usually sexual. Over 60% of divorcing father are accused of child sexual abuse, of which only 4% are found to have any relevance, but there are no penalties for doing so. A daily journal is your number one piece of evidence in court and you can even refer to it while on the stand.
Gather evidence. Check the site below to see if it is illegal to record conversations without the other person knowing. If your state does not have a law either way, than it defaults to the federal ruling which says one person in a conversation must know they are being recorded. You’re that one person. In Missouri it is specifically legal, in Kansas there is no mention either way. If you live in two different states, and one has a law against it, than it applies when the call originates from within that state,
Now, you can't just record, you also have to transcribe it into your daily journal.
If you want to learn how to do all this go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. Upon joining, you will receive a link for downloading a 200 page educational manual that can teach you what you need to know. Take the time to learn what you can and should do.
Bird Nest Custody
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/GiveKidsAChoice/
Can We Tape
http://www.rcfp.org/taping/
Dads House
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/DadsHouse/
Fathers & Families
http://www.fathersandfamilies.org/
THE FATHERLESS GENERATION
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yZmMffsIl9M
Fathers Rights: The Movie
http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=27395259
Parental Alienation Syndrome
http://www.parentalalienation.org/
He did not make the boy his son, so no he should not be responsible for the boy, but the intent was there, it is possible they could make him pay child support.
I feel so sorry for that little boy, everyone giving up on him.
I hope things turned out okay, Ironhead.
My son is most likely getting a divorce and has a step son . My question is...The biological father signed
over his rights last month so that my son could adopt him. Well now he will not be adopting him but his
soon to be ex wife says that he will have to pay child support since the biological father signed over his
rights. Does anyone know if this is true?
In California, if I buy a bigger house, will it reduce my child support payments?
by jnew415 on September 28th, 2011
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Child Support Payments
by Serendipity21 on June 16th, 2011
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My 2 sons live w/my ex-wife & her boyfriend.I do pay child support. they fight what can i do b4 my kids get hurt.
by smokeyparks on April 12th, 2011
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Should child support be based on the child's needs, the non-custodial parent's income, or a combination of the two?
by Ellis on April 29th, 2011
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I'm getting a divorce and my wife says she doesn't want me to pay child supp jus to split costs with her. Is it her choice or the courts?
by Rzmcc on April 18th, 2011
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You're reading Does a man that has a step son that he was going to adopt, but now is not due to probably getting divorced, have to pay child support? See explanation in first question.
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Very informative...thank you.
by Ironhead on June 24th, 2009