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Does a man that has a step son that he was going to adopt, but now is not due to probably getting divorced, have to pay child support? See explanation in first question.

By Ironhead Asked Dec 18 2008 6:58AM
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by George R. McCasland on Jun 24, 2009 at 9:26 am Permalink

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Generally, no, but there are cases where stepfathers have been ordered to pay child support. If you've been a significant part of the child's life, go for custody.

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Avatar Ironhead Jun, 24 2009 at 10:12 AM
Very informative...thank you.

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by Spicy Hot is an Angel.. on Jun 19, 2009 at 6:39 am Permalink

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He did not make the boy his son, so no he should not be responsible for the boy, but the intent was there, it is possible they could make him pay child support.

I feel so sorry for that little boy, everyone giving up on him.

I hope things turned out okay, Ironhead.
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Avatar Ironhead Jun, 19 2009 at 06:45 AM
Things turned out ok....the judge said that he does not have to pay child support since he did not adopt. Thanks for your reply Spicy!
Avatar Spicy Hot is an Angel.. Jun, 19 2009 at 06:49 AM
My pleasure, Ironhead.

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by Ironhead on Dec 18, 2008 at 6:58 am Permalink

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My son is most likely getting a divorce and has a step son . My question is...The biological father signed
over his rights last month so that my son could adopt him. Well now he will not be adopting him but his
soon to be ex wife says that he will have to pay child support since the biological father signed over his
rights. Does anyone know if this is true?
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Avatar Ironhead Dec, 18 2008 at 07:04 AM
His wife is the one that put the stop to it. I should have explained that better.
Avatar BMD Dec, 18 2008 at 07:21 AM
I apologize for my rudeness. As I child, my father also abandoned me, and when I was twelve I was disowned by my step-father (who had been with my family since I was 2). Prior to this he was planning to adopt me. So I have some remnant negative feelings about the subject, obviously. I should have asked for more details.
It really depends on how long they have been together, in reference to your question, but I would contact a lawyer if you want some info...it is really a gray area and is most likely up to a judge. If she is not letting him adopt him though, tell him to bring that up in court...I doubt they would make someone pay if they aren't getting the benefit of adopting their son.
Avatar Ironhead Dec, 18 2008 at 07:28 AM
I did not take your comment as rude......thanks for you comments.


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