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No, you will easily become the "bad person" in this situation. Flirting is harmless. Ex-boyfriends are easy to flirt with because you already know what they're like, but its her EX boyfriend for a reason. She's with you. Snooping on the other hand, shows that you don't trust her, perhaps your insecure or overpossessive. Even if you were just curious...those are the things that you will become in her eyes. If she hadn't stopped talking to him, and it actually sounded like they were going to get together, it would be a different story. Hope that helps. I've seen this situation many times, as far as I can tell, it's really not worth the trouble it will cause.
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Sounds like you guys are perfect for each other
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P.S. - quit snooping! If you dont trust her, break up with her. If you do, then just be happy being with her and let her have a little privacy.
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was she having cybersex? was she degrading you to him? or was she just doing some harmless flirting?
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I had the same situation with my boyfriend!!!, turns out he was lying skip rat!!!!!...... I always say that the internet is a serial cheaters best friend and worst enemy all rolled into one!!!!...... its easy to cheat on the internet, but also the easiest way to get caught out too!!!
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YES. She was being sneeky with the convo and now your being sneeky with snooping. She has no room to get mad at you. As for the convo itself, call her on it. Then bring the wrath of God down on her and show her how you roll.
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Leave it be. Flirting is harmless and at the end of the day she has stopped talking to him now.
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Unless you are a parent trying to protect your child, snooping is a bit of a snickness...that you can carry into adulthood...and you'll eventually find yourself untrusted and friendless. For your own future well-being, put a reign on it now.
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no, you should not confront her because you were wrong to begin with, and like they say, if you go looking for things you can usually expect to find something.
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where is the trust? why would you question her after you had breached her trust in you. You lied but you want to confront her to get the truth? If she loves you and is good to you-past is past. If you dig it up, its your issue not hers.
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She's stopped talking to him now. Let it go.
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